I'm having the same problem of unsupportive people. My unsupportive people are my husband.. Who thinks I'm going to lose weight and leave hime..lol.. and my best friend who is also heavy and that I asked to do this with me but is influenced by what everyone else tells her. I wish I didn't have to wait 5 more months and I could just get it done. I'm tired of them trying to talk me out of it. I'm sooo fustrated with them I could just cry. My mother-n-law and mom are sooo suppotive because they both had gsatric by-pass surgery. But it's hard when I know if I lose a lot of weight my husband is going to be soo jealous and make my life miserable. :thumbup: