Oh darling I do not in any way mean to scare anyone out of the band. I am almost a week out since my surgery and I feel great. I was scared about how I was going to feel, if I was going to feel "different." But, I don't, I actually feel good. I am about to start re-incorporating soft foods into my diet and am excited at all the possibilities. My husband has been helping me find some great recipes. The best part was when someone noticed at work today that I was losing weight! Talk about making me feel wonderful! It was a long journey to get to my surgery, but it is so worth it! I know that every time I look at my son and know that I am going to be here for him!!! Please ask me anything you want. I am here to be an ear to listen, answer questions based on what I have experienced, and just be here to support everyone on here. This is a hard journey that we are all embarking on, but we can do it together! (Not to sound corny!) Talk to you all soon!:smile2: