When I come on to this forum, I treat it like I am watching the evening news. Most of what you read is going to be negative but there is always going to be an uplifting story somewhere. It is just Human nature that you are going want to talk about the bad. People just don't share the good as much and they wants to share the bad.
As for my Journey, It has been one of ups and downs.
The Good things are:
1. I have lost 80lbs in 6 months.
2. I don't really think about food anymore
3. I am feeling great
4. It isn't has hard as I thought it was going to be.
Still I have times when some of the negatives you are reading about come into effect, but I would have the surgery again tomorrow.
Just remember that people that are Happy, don't need to get on the internet to tell people but if you are unhappy you are going to look in this forum for someone to share it with.