I don't even want to get started with what other people say! LOL I am quite tired of having to justify what I am doing, so I don't really discuss the issue with anyone except for one close friend and my husband. I think all of us have lost and regained hundreds of pounds in our lives. We know that we may lose and keep it off for awhile, but all it takes it one slip up and we are right back where we started. I even gained weight back with my lapband. I have found peace with not discussing it. I come here for my support. If the person you are talking with hasn't had a weight problem, they will never understand your side. Now, when you do lose all of the weight, I don't think they will have as much to say!