I feel your pain. I had my band removed in an emergency surgery, May 15, 2012. I had my band since 10/8/10 and it was nothing but trouble. I lost 50lbs but for the majority of the time I was banded I was eating and throwing up. I had a slips and then finally a blockage (when I was completely empty). So the removal and surgery was going to be in one shot but when the dr went in I was completely swollen - it took forever to get the band out and he said some of the mesh(if i rmember correctly) is still in me bc he couldn't see where it started and ended so he didn't want to cut "blindly". He didn't do the revision bc of the swelling. So I am having it 9/17/12. Like you i'm gaining weight. I just want to cry. I thought having the band was the easier option and it's not. Now in this "down" time I'm hearing everyone tell me how I can do weight watchers -- that I don't need the surgery.. They are trying scare tactics also - we don't want to lose you in the surgery etc etc. While I know they watched me live in hell for 2 years I'm know that this surgery is diff and one I need. If I didn't I wouldn't have gained all this weight in such a short time after having the band removed.
I'd listen to the dr and wait. time flies and I cant' believe my surgery is in a month.
Keep me posted on how you are doing.