...seems to be the word that comes to mind. I've finally made the decision to talk to my doctor about getting banded, but suddenly i'm in the middle of a panic attack! This should be one of the happiest moments of my life (i'm about to make a major life change and become a different person by next year my 40th birthday) and I am TERRIFIED. Not because of the surgery, or the pain involved...but of actually going forward and making the change?! I'm thinking that therapy may actually be helpful while going through this transition. I assume that's the norm??