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Rubyjade

LAP-BAND Patients
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About Rubyjade

  • Rank
    Expert Member
  • Birthday 06/17/1974

About Me

  • Biography
    Australian, moved to the US in August of '04 all for the love of a great man :) Feel like I have a new lease on life since I was banded in Jan of '04.
  • Interests
    Ice hockey, Travel, Scrapbooking, My dogs
  • Occupation
    Receptionist
  • City
    Everett
  • State
    Washington
  • Zip Code
    98201
  1. Wow it has been a life time since I was last on this forum! I would love some advice right now as I am pretty much over this whole thing! I was banded 10 years ago in Australia and have managed to lose (and keep off) over 150lbs. Now I am living in the US (since 2004) and am having major complications where I cannot sleep at night due to choking on stomach acid. The band has to come out or I am at risk of Aspiration Pneumonia, which can be VERY serious. All options have been tried, so I am not here to ask for advice on that. My surgeon has advised me that the only option is removal or eventually severe illness. I am already wheezing and am weak due to the foreign matter constantly entering my lungs at night and choking me. My good old band has done its job and for that, I am thankful.However, it is time to part ways. I am exhausted due to lack of sleep and completely miserable due to the discomfort it is now causing me. My surgeon says it has to be out by the end of this month. One slight issue........ my insurance won't cover the removal. Not one little bit. It's excluded, even complications. So I am desperate and don't have a spare $10K laying around to self-pay for this. I have explored the Mexico options, which look REALLY good but was wondering if there has been anyone else in this situation. I do not qualify for any loans due to past credit issues but am in the best financial position of my life and can easily pay back a loan if I actually did get one, which I won't. Any assistance would be wonderful. I am too tired to even know where to begin.
  2. Wow it has been a life time since I was last on this forum! I would love some advice right now as I am pretty much over this whole thing! I was banded 10 years ago in Australia and have managed to lose (and keep off) over 150lbs. Now I am living in the US (since 2004) and am having major complications where I cannot sleep at night due to choking on stomach acid. The band has to come out or I am at risk of Aspiration Pneumonia, which can be VERY serious. All options have been tried, so I am not here to ask for advice on that. My surgeon has advised me that the only option is removal or eventually severe illness. I am already wheezing and am weak due to the foreign matter constantly entering my lungs at night and choking me. My good old band has done its job and for that, I am thankful.However, it is time to part ways. I am exhausted due to lack of sleep and completely miserable due to the discomfort it is now causing me. My surgeon says it has to be out by the end of this month. One slight issue........ my insurance won't cover the removal. Not one little bit. It's excluded, even complications. So I am desperate and don't have a spare $10K laying around to self-pay for this. I have explored the Mexico options, which look REALLY good but was wondering if there has been anyone else in this situation. I do not qualify for any loans due to past credit issues but am in the best financial position of my life and can easily pay back a loan if I actually did get one, which I won't. Any assistance would be wonderful. I am too tired to even know where to begin.
  3. Happy 39th Birthday Rubyjade!

  4. Rubyjade

    Do you think I just need a fill?

    So I went to my doctor today and I dont need a fill after all. He thinks I just really need to go back to basics and follow the band rules all over again. I have a sneaking suspicion he may be right hehe. Now I think about it, I drink way too soon after eating and my choices could be better. He did look at me under fluoroscope today and watched me drink. Filled my band I think 1cc (it is totally unfilled), watched again and said no way, it was way too much restriction. I have a very small band, the ones they used in Australia 5 years ago, much smaller than the american ones. I believe it may be an 8cc band. So anyway I just have to give it a week or two and do what I am supposed to do and if I still feel hungry to just go back. He said the band looked great, no erosion, no slippage, no pouch dilation. Im pretty happy with the visit actually. He gave me great words of encouragement and told me that I am truly a success story. To be banded almost 5 years ago and to have lost 140 pounds and not gained any back was truly 'exemplary'. Now I know what I gotta do to get rid of the rest of this weight so I can get the boob job I so desperately need!!! I feel very motivated after my visit. He's such an awesome doc!!!
  5. DEFINITELY DEFINITELY call the doctor and let them know. I had my port replaced and had the weirdest swelling but it was actually around the port site, not my whole belly like yours sounds like. Anyway I told them it was odd and looked like I had a tennis ball under my skin. I felt fine too. Then about 5 days out from surgery I was soooo sooooo sick. Like food poisoning, only it wasn't. I was bedridden for 2 days, so sick and weak. During that time the swelling completely disappeared. Now I am not a doctor but to me..... my case seemed like I had some kind of infection around the port area which probably entered my bloodstream and made me so sick. I was fine after a couple of days but if I were you, I would not just ignore it. I am probably over reacting but you know... it's best to get this stuff checked out ASAP.
  6. Rubyjade

    Do you think I just need a fill?

    Thank you Hollie :crying: yeah I am definately eating enough hahah. I am eating too much actually and of course have not always been diligent about WHAT I am eating too!!!!!! Yeah I guess that is true.......... if my pouch was stretched again I would be noticing that I can eat larger amounts. I have had heartburn pretty much since the day I was banded so that is nothing new. There is nothing new or unusual going on, just hunger too soon after eating. I feel a little better, thank you. I'm so impatient to just get the rest of this weight off. It's been too long. I want to get to 160 (which is only 65 pounds or so away) which means I would have lost 200 pounds and then I can think about surgey to fix my revolting flappy arms I cant wait.
  7. Hi All I am hardly a newbie to the lap band but have only had 2 fills in the entire time I have had it and both were within 3 months post op. I was banded in Jan 04 and have lost around 140 pounds but my weight has been pretty much the same for the last 18 months or so because I haven't been as committed as I should be eating the right foods and I get hungry quite often ......... so this brings me to my question. I get full on small amounts of food still so I don't think I have an issue with my pouch being stretched (which previously I have had) or with slippage. The problem is I am hungry again within an hour or two of eating so I am snacking all day because I am never satisfied for long. I eat small amounts each time but it's SEVERAL times during the day, not just 3 or 4 times. Do you think this is indicative of needing a fill? My band has been entirely empty for just over 18 months (No coincidence really is it that my weight loss came to a screaming halt around the same time??!!) so I probably could do with a fill. I had port revision surgery in Dec 06 and have not had a fill since then. I am scared it is something more serious even though I can only eat small amounts and have no pain or anything else unusual going on. I have an appt with my surgeon next week and they want to do a fluoroscopy first just to make sure everything is ok because it has been so long. I guess it is just a precaution to make sure its all ok before they fill me. I know you guys arent doctors but hearing your opinion would calm me down a little if you just think a fill is all that is needed. I'm a bit scared. :crying:
  8. Hi All I am hardly a newbie to the lap band but have only had 2 fills in the entire time I have had it and both were within 3 months post op. I was banded in Jan 04 and have lost around 140 pounds but my weight has been pretty much the same for the last 18 months or so because I haven't been as committed as I should be eating the right foods and I get hungry quite often ......... so this brings me to my question. I get full on small amounts of food still so I don't think I have an issue with my pouch being stretched (which previously I have had) or with slippage. The problem is I am hungry again within an hour or two of eating so I am snacking all day because I am never satisfied for long. I eat small amounts each time but it's SEVERAL times during the day, not just 3 or 4 times. Do you think this is indicative of needing a fill? My band has been entirely empty for just over 18 months (No coincidence really is it that my weight loss came to a screaming halt around the same time??!!) so I probably could do with a fill. I had port revision surgery in Dec 06 and have not had a fill since then. I am scared it is something more serious even though I can only eat small amounts and have no pain or anything else unusual going on. I have an appt with my surgeon next week and they want to do a fluoroscopy first just to make sure everything is ok because it has been so long. I guess it is just a precaution to make sure its all ok before they fill me. I know you guys arent doctors but hearing your opinion would calm me down a little if you just think a fill is all that is needed. I'm a bit scared. :crying:
  9. Hey Rubyjade,

    I'm also from your side of the woods! Bellingham Washinton (about an hour and a half north of seattle). I was wondering where you got banded? I'm going to be banded at North West Weight Loss Surgery on May 20th. I figured since you are from Everett there is a chance you were banded there as well! I'ed love to hear about your expearence! Thanks so much,

    Marine

  10. For the last 3 weeks I have been serious about getting my arse back to the gym and counting every single thing that goes in my mouth to get my weight loss back on track. For the first week I worked out 5 days per week for an hour at a time and ate about 1200 cals on avg per day. I lost 3 pounds that week. For the second week I worked out 6 days per week for an hour at a time and ate about 1300 cals on avg per day. I lost 4.5 pounds that week. This last week? Worked out 6 days and hour at a time and ate about 900 cals per day. I LOST NO WEIGHT THIS WEEK!!!!!!!!! What a learning exercise this has been for me. Obviously I am not giving my body enough fuel with all the exercise I have been doing and it has come to a screaming halt. I was not intending to have such a low caloric intake, I was just busy and not very hungry this week. This week I am going to up my cals and make sure I plan ahead and fit in at least 1200 and eat some whole grains with it. I am really bad at that. Stay tuned for the results!! Anyone else have a similar experience?
  11. Rubyjade

    Advice needed

    Hmmmmmmmmmmm I really really want to say that it isn't caused by being too tight. But it may be. I was waking up choking on acid during the night and got an unfill and the problem was solved. But then again, I don't have allergies either so I guess that is possible. It would suck to have an unfill because of this seeing as you are getting great results though :frown:
  12. Geez I was scared to read that you are eating non mushy foods this soon out. I am not a surgeon though and I did have my surgery over 4 years ago, so I am sure that things have changed a bit since then. Be so so careful though. The reason I was told you start out on liquids and mushies is because you are newly banded and the band has to adhere to your stomach and that takes time. Caution in the early days is crucial to make sure you are set up ok from the beginning. Your doctor knows best for sure though. Please call him if you have any doubts!! Good luck on your journey!!
  13. Rubyjade

    Just Saying Hello

    Welcome!! Good luck on your journey to a new healthier you
  14. Rubyjade

    Memorial Day WeightLoss Challenge

    Ok so I just had a really really good loss this week so I need to reset my goal for this challenge LOLOL Not that I am complaining of course..... so here is my updated goal below!! Name............Current............Goal..............Lost........Still to Loose... Jennifer..........188................183................4............. .1............ KarenG............174...............169.................0............. .5............. Tracy..............271...............265.................0............ ..6.......... Suzie.............221................210.................0............ ...6............ Shampoo .......162................155.................0...............7....... ...... Mary..............177...............172.................0............. ..5............. JoAnne............164...............155.................0............. ..9.............
  15. Rubyjade

    signs of needing band removed??

    They put me back on liquids only for a week to let any irritation ease off. I could have all clear liquids and stuff like tomato soup and slimfast for a week. Then I was on mushys for another week. It wasn't fun but it scared me enough to do the right thing. They said if I had continued with that same behaviour, my band would have slipped. It didn't and now I'm ok.

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