wow,thanks for the responses and the encouragement..
the 6 month period seems to be a blessing in disguise..i really feel,for the first time in my life,extremely motivated to make some serious life changes..
these months will help me and my new hubby understand just how important my surgery will be...OUR lives will change,not just mine..i am very blessed to have such a great and supportive family..
however,i will say that i am getting a little impatient..lol...i am an avid shopper so i am trying to refrain from buying any new clothes that are not entirely needed..