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I see a counsler and I attend OA(overeaters anonymous) a free program similar to AA(alcoholics anonymous) it just talks about our obsessions with food and everyone there is trying to figure out how to have a healthy relationship with food. It has helped alot!!! The counsler helps but it costs money. So whatever your budget you can get the help we need to fix our "heads"...... good luck....:smile:

I am going on 4 weeks post op and have moved up to 4tbsp. of lean protien per meal and protien shakes in between, i am guessing he said that because he does not want you to become discouraged. i weigh one time a week as to not get discouraged and i have been loosing weight. so don't worry, it is a marathon not a sprint right? your doin' good, just stay on your plan. keep us posted!!:smile:

I am a newbie, banded 9/23 this is what my doctor explained to me....wait 30min. before a meal as to not fill your pouch with liquid then the food intake you may become to "full" then wait 30min after so you can absorb the nutrients of your meal, then we can drink. i wouldn't guzzle or gulp water, i was told sips throughout the day too.. i just keep a bottle of water with me at all times and sip on it until 30 before meal time.....hope that helps a little..:smile:

I am a new bandster....hocus, you and i had surgery the same day and I am also struggling with food, I didnt tell you anything i would not have wanted you to say to me if i had made that food choice 2 weeks post op. I myself go to counseling and OA to get the head help i need....that is why i suggested that to you....if i sounded harsh or rude or on my high horse it comes from a place of caring for a fellow september sweetie. please get the help you need to continue your band decision.

:confused:I think eveyone who posted were enabling you to continue making poor food choices!!!!!!!!!:biggrin: This is your journey and if you want to continue doing what you are doing your welcome to do that! But, the band is not a weight loss cure and if you don't become friends with yourself and continue to compulsively overeat you are NOT going to find your journey a success!!!!! so STOP what you are doing with the food and start getting the "head" help you need! see a therapist or go to OA(overeaters anonymous)(free) and start today!!! Be good to yourself!

WannaBeHealthy....I posted something similar 2 weeks ago...after much trial and error...ie:gagging and whining....I now get all the pills in a shot glass, mix them with water, like 1/3 way up the shot glass and let them sit...and sit....and sit...until they are all a chalk like texture...i then get a sugar free popcicle ready...i shoot the pill water, cringe just a little, and suck on the popcicle which gets rid of the bitterness.....quite the process I know, but it works....good luck..:thumbdown:

HI!!! I am 1 1/2 weeks post-op.......feeling great...eating 2 tbsp of food 3x's a day and protien shakes in between...learning how to eat again!!!lol....Thurs. I get 3 tbsp 3x's a day!! Hope I don't get too full.....yeah right...lol I am ready for this cold to go away tho!!!!!! darn kids! down 30lbs from pre-op....so happy:w00t: I am craving cigs again!!!!!!!!!!!!! I stopped in March and now all I can think about is smoking again!!!! ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!:smile2:

Hi All... I am 1 week post op and had the diawee...wee...too...it was not comfortable at all...i also called them loaded toots!!!lol...so not to worry...it gets better....easy off of the yogurt, the sugar free items etc... and more on protien shakes....it is a bummer but it gets better... and make sure you toot on the potty it is safer that way...lol

Part of my lapband journey is OA (overeaters anonymous). There you will find people just like us. Trying to obstain from compulsive overeating, which clearly we all suffer from. There are people who have had different types of weight loss surgery who are aware that the old habits do return without a support system. Hope no one is offended but I just want all of us to be successful!!!!:drool:

What the heck is sliming???? sounds like i don't want to experience that.....:smile2:

I am so embarrassed to write this but is anyone experiencing loaded toots??? I have so much untrustworthy gas....surgery was thurs. I am still on liquids, and am not liking this....everyone seems to be constipated.....but not me!!!! help!!!:smile:

yeah!! glad to hear from ya SDG..keep me posted...thank you BrianLA, i am investing in a crusher today!!