Spouse of T

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Surgery date Aug 11, 2010....excited as hell. Hello all. I am trying to get an idea of what to expect. I have been doing my pre-op and it has gone pretty smoothly. If there is anyone married that can tell me if your spouse seemed happy at first but the closer the date get...not so sure? My husband has been a great support!!! But, I think he may be thinking I am leaving him behind (he is heavy and wants nothing to do with the surgery for himself). I don't want to have mixed feelings or doubt going in. Thanks for any advice.