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Gaffer

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    My Life as a Bandster

    I am not totally empty, I am at 4.5CC out of 14CC. I was living and eating quite well at 5CC quite hapily until I was over filled to 6CC. I may as well be empty though. Although I am not totally able to pigout, I am pretty unrestricted. I was doing so well with my recovery period, I had not PB'd in a month, and then we went to a restaraunt the other day when and orderd the ribs which stuck me up like hell. Mind you, even when I was tightest I was able to eat ribs. I figure that these ones had been microwaved. I cannot tolerate microwaved meat in any fashion. Now I am going to have to wait to get a fill to let my stomach get better. Andrew
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    Wedding Ring

    What you are looking for is called a ring guard. Any jewelry store that does repairs shoudl have them . If you get one in what is called "base metal" they are about $5. You can also get them in gold if you have skin problems for about $20. I have been wearing one and they are perfect. They are soft enough that you can bend them inward as your fingers shrink. This is what they look like. Note the little peice of metal at the bottom of the ring. They come in many different sizes based on what you need for your rings. Andrew
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    My Life as a Bandster

    You know what, I actually had planned a 6 months retrospective on my 6 month anniversary Aug.14. Needless to say I did not get around to it, but I have been meaning to. I will try & post a thread tonight when I get home from work. Andrew
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    Post op and constipation ??

    I use benefiber, but I have also needed to get usede to the idea that I may not have a BM everyday (Is that too much information or what?) Also make sure you are getting enough Water. I find I can tell when I am not drinking enough as everything backs up. Andrew
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    My Life as a Bandster

    I can feel your pain. I did the "too full, need multiple defills past where I last felt good at" thing as well. Andrew
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    Post operative care with Dr. Coburn

    I agree with what everyone is saying. I feel that my aftercare from both Dr. Coburn and his staff have been top notch. He has taken the time to call me to help me resolve issues. I also saw him in Calgary when he was here most recently for a fill & a check up. I feel he is genuinely concerned for the well-being of his patients and I feel as though he has not forgotten me once he recieved my money, unlike so many other service providers I deal with. I cannot say enough good things about him. Andrew
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    Pain in back of throat

    That is great news. As soon as I saw your post I was wondering how you were doing with that. Andrew
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    after band before fill

    I did have bread, and was able to eat bread before I was at my current level of restriction. You may want to wait a little to try the bread. IIRC my post op package said to try toast first as it tends to go down a little better. At 3 weeks you are still recovering and I would wait a couple of weeks in the event that you have to PB it back up. On the other side of the coin though, I would not plan on making bread a regular part of your diet once you are restricted. It just is not worth the greif. Andrew
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    Milestones, Anniversaries, SVs and NSVs

    My fill Dr. has one of these scales too. I love to go in and see what is happening. Nice increase in the FFM too. 10# of FFM is another 10# of fat that is gone. I would post my latest numbers, but they are at home. Good work, Andrew
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    For Just Us Guys

    I am in the same boat. At 360 I thought to myself, "I dont look that bad." Maybe that was just me protecting myself from the truth. Now I look in the mirror, and I can recognize where I came from, but I am still thinking "Why do I look this bad?" My wife & I were looking at an album that she was putting some new pictures in the other day, and I could not believe how fat I looked. I said to her "Why did'nt you tell me I was that fat?" Of course I was kidding, but she told me she had told me, maybe it was during hockey playoff & I did not hear her. That is the best feeling being able to get rid of a bunch of stuff. I am pretty sure that there is not much in the way of thrift store finds for guys that were as big as we once were. If you do have alot of expensive stuff, or suits, it may be worth while looking at a consignment shop. Many of them will just pay you up front, less than what it would to consign but still some money. I have scored the last 2 days. The Bay up here has had all of their clearance stuff an additional 40% off. I managed to score some $115 Hilfiger shirts for a little over $20 each. It is great all the brands that I wanted to wear but was too fat & cheap to buy. Andrew Andrew
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    Compression Shirts

    The last time I lost a bunch of weight (125#) and was fairly buff I would wear a size small T-shirt under my clothes. I knew some twins who had lost a bunch of weight & they swore that the small shirts helped with bringing some of the skin back. This time I am planning on buying some compressions shirts by under armour when I am stateside (they are twice the price here in Canada). I think I will pick up about 5-6 in black & white so I can just wear them under my clothes like I do a T-shirt. I only wear performance shirts & shorts when I work out. Cotton is so 1800's. I prefer the Russell Athletics ones as they are softer & well priced. I like the loose fitting Under armour but I find they are a little too short. Addidas clima-cool is good, but I find it is too rough and when it gets we it chafs really badly. Can you say bloody nipples? Ouch. Andrew
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    For Just Us Guys

    It is amazing. My favorite shirt was a RL Chaps button up (which I could not button up) in 5XL (I find their stuff fits small). I bought another one last night in XL, note the lack of digits in front of the XL. The T-shirts that I wear I have gone from a tight 3XL to a comfortable L. I am headed to Vegas next week for some R&R, and some clothes. My closet is bare and the shirts I bought on sale at the beginning of summer to get me through are way too big now. I literally have 3 shirts that I can wear to work but I dont want to spend a ton of money on clothes that I will not be able to wear in a few months. Do any of you guys still look at yourself & see your self like you did at your old weight? Despite getting rid of mountians of clothes that were way to big, I dont see myself much differently that I did at 360#. I can feel the difference and notice it, but sometimes I look in the mirror & still see the super-obese man I was before my surgery, not the new "just obese" person that I am. I guess it has only been 6 months, maybe my brain needs to get accustomed to seeing less of me. Andrew
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    tax claim....... being audited!

    Don't ask us, we are in the Canadian forum. Best to ask on a more american oriented part of LBT than the Canadian forum. Andrew
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    LapBand VS VBG

    Does anyone still do VBG. I am not saying that to be rude, but I think that Lapband has replaced VGB in most situations. Here I think you will get most of you opinions saying that Lapband is superior. In my opinion it is. The adjustable aspect of it was the most appealing for me as well as the very low rate of complication. That combined with the fact that after 5 years, weight loss with Lapband is not significantly different than other weight loss surgeries made it a no brainer for me. Andrew
  15. It is likely that the instant breakfast has whey Blend of some kind, and it may be of poor quality. I know if I use whey blends I will farting all day. Look for a protien shake that uses Whey Isolate, like Iso-Pro or NxCare IsoXP. Go to your local body building supplement store or someplace like GNC and ask for Whey Isolate. You can also find them & order them online. Of course since you are in pre-op, talk to your surgeons too & see what he says. Andrew
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    Mikes Hard Lemonade

    Mike's are carbonated. Personally I have an easier time with beer, as opposed to other carbonated drinks like pop (I wont let coolers pass my lips). I find the beer has smaller bubbles, likely due to it being naturally carbonated by the yeast. Maybe pick up a Mike's before you go to the game & see how it goes. I would also try a light beer & see what you have an easier time with. Andrew
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    For Just Us Guys

    silentfades, When I was looking into the surgery, it was the number/stats that sealed the deal for me. I have a strong science background, but at the end of the day, I looked at how the numbers where stacked in my favour. The chances of death were miniscule and the success rate was very good especially when weighed against the complications of other WLS. Do some looking around at the stats, and you will see that the deck is stacked in your favour. Apart from the numbers, I can tell you that I have not regretted for a minute having the band. I am 6 month post op as of today, and never has my life improved for the better in such a short amount of time. Andrew
  18. That "100 Alberta Lap-Band" is a farce, and I am willing to bet that no more than 50 band are going to be placed this year. You see, AB health care bought 100 bands, but they do not have the capacity in the system to perform the surgeries. The problem is there is no capacity to perform the pre-op care, the surgery, or the post op care with fills, nutritional counselling, or psych counselling. The health care system in Alberta is in rough shape due to the influx of people looking for work. Here in Calgary many high risk pregnancies are sent out to BC, Sask or even into the States because there are not enough beds in hospitals or NICU. With things like this happening weight loss surgery, which is still viewed as a lifestyle issue, takes a back seat I have started the referal process for a panniculctomy, It looks like I am about 18-24 months before I get surgery (fingers crossed). Alberta is not setting a precident, rather they are talking some good game. When you get all the facts, we are no further ahead than other provinces in terms of lap bands. Andrew
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    For Just Us Guys

    Quote: Originally Posted by njwhitetail well I do eat wendys chili it goes down great It is great though. I was normally spending about $8-$9 for lunch at these places, now I am full off a $1.39 Chilli (Canadian prices here). The money that I am saving on food and beer will pay for my surgery in no time. Andrew
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    Milestones, Anniversaries, SVs and NSVs

    Is your ring made from Titanium by chance? If so, they are forged. I really liked the titanium ones when I was shopping for mine, but being unable to be resized was what put me off. As for the ring guard, the do come in larger sizes for wider bands. If you go to a local jewler that does repairs they will likely have one. I found it really handy whne the weight was falling off I could just bend the guard to make the ring smaller. Andrew
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    Any bandsters in Fort McMurray, Alberta

    I have not seen any bandsters on here from Ft. Mac., but I am assuming there are some there. I am sure Dr. Coburn mentioned that he was training someone to do fills there. I know there are some in Edmonton, Grand Prairie and some here in Calgary. A little too far to get together for a quick meet up. Welcome to Alberta. Andrew
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    Feeling discouraged

    I had the same pain, and I also had a hernia repair. Just to be safe I would talk to one of the nurses at the clinic. From what I rember being told that tightness was caused by the hernia repair and it did go away. Stay positive, there are bound to be some bumps along the way but overall the experience is a great one. Andrew
  23. I have been enjoying wine more after I have been banded. I was/still am somewhat of a beer snob, but I have started to get into more wine lately. My wife & I have really been enjoying some nice Pinotage wines lately. I cant say that I am partial to a particular country, I am an equal opportunity wino. The only thing that I dislike is that I try to finish my wine before my food arrives. I am a strict no liquids with food kinda guy. Any one have a favorite wine they like lately? Here are my recent favorites: Ash Tree Estate Shiraz Monastrell Graham Beck Pinno Pinnotage Good Stand Bys: Ruffino Chianti Folanari Valpolicella (This is great because it comes in half bottles which is perfect when you dont want to open a whole bottle, and they are only about $6 each here) Andrew
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    Its A Done Deal

    Congrats on taking the plunge. I did not have a last meal per se, rather I liked to call it the Farewell Tour. What a pig out it was. It is totally normal activity, and I actually found it to be beneficial in my case. After the month of donairs, donuts, whoppers and other crap I felt so awful I was ready to get the monkey off my back. Andrew
  25. An interesting side note to this. My boss has been in the weight management clinic which is the first step to getting a provincially paid band. Some people may have heard that Alberta was going to fund an additional 100 bands this year. Well from what I have been told by my boss who is in the program, Dr. Coburn and my fill provider is that the will not be able to do any where near this many bands. There is no capacity in the health region to do the triage to see who gets them, the counsiling that goes with it, the actualy surgery and recovery as well as the aftercare for the patients. You can buy 100 bands, but they aint doing any good sitting on the shelves and they wont install themselves. It is tragic as there are so many people that could benefit from these surgeries. Andrew

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