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I don't know about everyone, but I needed someone to help me for a few days after surgery. Not all day long, but often enough. I was in pain and couldn't move without help. Maybe if you have a friend of family member who can check on you? Or a neighbor? Someone who can come a few times a day to make sure you are ok and refill ice and water and stuff, and help you to the restroom.

Ok all- I am 6 weeks out, and can't figure out how to post a photo. BUT, mine are still red and itchy. They drain occationally, but I also need to admit that I absentmindedly scratch at them. I probably caused some minor infection, but it doesnt hurt, just itches. Anyway, I have my 6 week post op tomorrow, so I will likely get fussed at for the shape of my incisions. Has anyone else had this issue? I do have one that is just a pink 1 cm line, but the others are all still scabbed.

My surgery pain was gone by day 3 or 4, but the gas pain lasted longer. It was also worse than the incisions, but not everyone gets that. Get gasex or something like that BEFORE it hits, and try to prevent it. I was fine by day 6, and most people think that is a LONG time recovery. You will be fine for court. Good luck!!

Hair loss?! Help! No one mentioned that to me. I take the Centrum chewables b/c I was told to stay away from the gummies. I also use the liquid sub lingual b-complex and tums for calcuim. What is the issue with Barium??

Hummos? pureed with roasted red peppers is really good. Use a veggie or low fat cracker for dipping. I actually like it plain, but that's me. I also make a simple lentil soup- I am still on mushy foods, so these 'real foods' make me feel more adult. (Lentil soup recipe on back of red lentil bag) If you want the entire rec., I would be happy to post it.

Actually, I have less coming out than going in, which might be causing the horrible gas pain. OUCH. I can hardly move without stabbing pain.

I spent this week thinking "wth did I do to myself?" I have been in pain, from incisions, gas, throat,and back. When one cleared up a little, the others hit with a vengence. BUT... Tuesday was surgery, and today is Saturday. I am better, can move better with just a little soreness, and not crying at every step or turn. This might be TMI, but try to get the gas out the back end. You shouldn't be able to burp yet, and it needs to get out to make you feel better.

unjury is good about samples. You can order their sample pack and see what works for you. It is whey, which I also can't tolerate but Lactaid does come in chewable form. I swear by that- soy doesn't have nearly the same protein as whey.

This, too, shall pass. Relax and be positive. I know this is easier said than done, and I just got my band yesterday, so I know nothing about your frustration. I do know that there is a 'bandster hell' board for people in your situation. You are not alone.

i got mine yesterday, too, and i totally get you. I don't know how long the pain lasts, but today is better than last night. I have to pee like every 3 hours. considereing i haven't had much to drink, that is shocking. and it hurts to go, too. My Dr knew what he was talkig about for preop, though. nothing but clear liquids and a liquid laxitive. nasty, but a good thing today. nothing in there to come out yet, so don't have that pain yet. i found that juice bags i use for the kids are easy to drink- i use the roaring waters by capri sun- only 10 calories per bag i think. the straw helps. thanks for this board- the support is great.

Any place should be ok. Just order an appetizer, ask if you can order lunch at dinner (usually ok, sometimes an extra charge) or just order whatever and ask for a 'to go' box with your dinner. Put what you know you won't eat in the box as soon as it comes, and then enjoy.

I attend online OA meetings. I do believe in God, but you don't have to believe to attend or even follow the program. You just need to believe in something more powerful than yourself- even if that is just the group of people around you. It is helpful to have all the support you can- talking it out in a group makes things feel more real to me, so it gives me accountablity to someone other than myself. I lie to myself all the time, but I tend to be more honest with others. Overeaters Anonymous - Welcome to Overeaters Anonymous