I'm sorry to hear you've had so much trouble. However, I understand the frustration of fills. I was banded back in 08 and have only had my initial fill and one this past January.... My first fill after surgery was painful. My surgeon did it in 20 minutes and ended up bending the needle and having to get a new one. Needless to say, if the hypodermic needle bent... he was applying a ton of pressure. My second and hopefully last fill was extremely painful. My surgeon poked around in me for 30 minutes before he figured out that my port had become partially undone. My port was tilted sideways and he had been jabbing straight down trying to fill it. The pain was horrible and for someone who has a high pain tolerance I must admit it made me cry. My surgeon then mentioned to me that he has had 3 other patients that have had a similar problem... not sure if that was supposed to be reassuring. Today I had sharp pains coming from my port area and it hurt to breathe in. My step-mom is an RN and she thinks it was probably the rest of the stitches popping out.... The feeling of that is not fun. It took about an hour for the pain to subside. If I ever have it filled again, she said I'd have to have an x-ray to see where the port has shifted to.... kinda scary.
I hope everything works out for you in the end. No one deserves more pain when they are trying to better themselves. Just stay strong, find your silver lining
*Sidney*