Thanks guys, things have actually been going really well for me. The ex is bitter, but we met up on Tuesday to swap cars and he was being a bitter d**k about it. We had planned to do that at some point this week, but I was very busy at work/school, so when he texted me on Tuesday to see whether I could meet up, I suggested Sunday instead....his response was that he was "looking forward to never seeing (me) or hearing (my) voice ever again, and would rather not have to wait til Sunday..." I was like, whatever, screw you, "if you don't care that the car's not cleaned, then sure, I can meet tonight."
Unfortunately, the other day I realized that he has the keys to my shotgun (of all things, lmao), but he said he will leave them with his receptionist, so I don't have to interact with him to get those. But yeah, it sounds like he has no desire to be involved in my life in any way right now, which is perfect.
Anyway, in other news, I've been seeing this one fellow this week, and I just got back from our 4th date. We made plans for some other get-togethers since I have this coming week off, so I suppose it's getting semi-serious, at the least, I'm getting a good FWB deal out of this. I don't really feel like it's any sort of rebound for me, in fact, I'm really relishing the ways he's different from my ex. My ex was a nerdy, out of shape insecure accountant, whereas this guy is an army officer and I'm really feeling all the masculine traits he has that my ex lacked. Today, we went for a walk in the park, and it was a very nice day, so tons of people were running stairs - we have a very long, steep stairs going up the river bank, maybe 300 steps or so? He just threw me over his shoulders and ran up those stairs without stopping once with everybody looking on with their jaws hanging open, I thought it was the hottest thing ever, haha. At the top he told me it was the stupidest thing he's ever done, but still....lol