Julieisahooli

I had my surgery on a Thursday and was back to class on the following tuesday I believe. For me, I was still a little sore just around the incisions. But one thing that really helped was my mom got me up and out almost every day following the surgery and kept me moving. That was a huge help! Not only to keep my mind off the fact that I couldn't eat, but helped with the risk of getting blood clots. (Same for any other surgery) Don't overdo it, but you'll be totally fine before you know it. Honestly, the only time you'll notice the incisions is when you get up from a chair, or get up from bed but other than that it was fine. And It didn't last more than a week and a halfish. You'll probably notice the hunger more than anything, but its easy to get used to. It's normal to be nervous, trust me. But if the weight loss is as important for you as it was for me, you wont regret it! Please let me know if you have any other questions! Or just want to chit chat about about absolutely anything! It's always good to have someone in your corner

Hello! let me start by saying.. im 22 as well! So I immediately felt the need to respond! The incisions will hurt a bit, but really not more than a week or so. and will mostly just be sore. That's how mine were. Honestly, this was the best decision I could have ever made. Yes, it makes dating interesting, and going out with friends interesting.. but it really is what you get used to. Don't get me wrong, its REALLY hard, and you'll have to make some major changes.. but personally for me.. I wouldn't have been able to do it without the surgery. Date suggestions? Go out for coffee or drinks as you get to know the person.. and then clue them in on the surgery when you feel comfortable. In the beginning for me, I didn't want ANYONE to know, in fear of being judged.. but you would be surprised at how supportive people can be. And as for going out with friends.. I know you mentioned you wanted to keep it a secret.. as did I.. but you never know.. maybe putting it out there and actually explaining what it is will help them understand. Worse comes to worse, and you REALLY dont want to tell them.. just keep it as "I'm on a very strict diet". But overall.. my suggestion is DEFINITELY do it! It's gonna be hard, and there will be times you wish you hadn't but just keep the end goal and the big picture in mind! Isn't being healtthy, and looking and feeling great so much better than a date or an outting with friends? Plus, if they're gonna be cruel and judege you.. you probably don't want them in your life anyway! WOW that was a long responce! But I felt the same exact way when I got my surgery, and would have loved someone to share with me.. so I hope I helped a little!

Totally normal! for some reason, crispier things are easier for the stomach to digest. So eating chicken might be harder, while crackers are easier. I am one year post op and still learning! Just take it easy and learn what works for you. Protein shakes = my life. Try mashed potatoes too! They help with the feeling of being satisfied. Honestly, the "full" feeling comes once in a blue moon for me. Focus more on satisfied rather than full!

Hey all! The name is Julie. I just had surgery last Thursday! I figure I should get involved in as many blogs as possible, and talk to all of you out there that are going through the same thing I am! First off I have to say... IT'S REALLY FREAKING HARD! I'm STARVING. My incisions hurt and I'm tired.I just want to freaking CHEW something! But... Knowing that the number WILL be lower every time I step on the scale is definitely my incentive. I had a dream that I ate my FLIP FLOP yesterday. Maybe that can give you an idea of how hungry I am. Not only did the dream consist of me actually biting my flip flop and eating it, but I stopped not because I was eating a flip flop.. but because the pieces were too big! How pathetic is that? But as they say, everything worth having is worth working for. For those of you who think this is an easy fix... ITS NOT. But its an AWESOME tool to help. I'm drinking my Protein Shakes every 15 min and making it one day at a time. I would love to chat with those interested in surgery, those in the same stage as me, and those who can give me advice. Feel free to comment, or message.. or whatever it you do on here to talk to people! Looking forward to sharing my journey with everyone! -Jul Total weight loss: 12 lbs. (6 post op)