Hi findingherself, Im also finding myself...lol. Im also a military wife. My husband has been gone a yr. He came home for RandR in May and thats when I had my surgery. He will be home in less then 3 weeks and Im down 54 Lbs. He hasnt seen me, Im excited. I still have a ways to go but he hasnt seen me this size since befor i got pregnant 8 yrs ago. I wish you luck on your journey. =)