Thank you Mcobandita! Everything you said is me. I am a 36 BMI, and have the same thoughts and fears. I was ready to schedule my sugery for next month, and have talked myself in and out of it all week. I just don't know if it is for me. I am so tired of being the fatest girl in the room. I never thought It would be me, but the lifestyle changes, and the problems, and the never again bread, pop, beer, and all the other stuff, how bad do I want it!That is the question!:confused: