First let me say I'm sorry for your pain:sad: and for the fact that you are discouraged. Everyone is different and only you know your body and how you feel - that said - it seems too soon to give up. I had a very rough time in recovery after my band (placed 7/20/10) and missed an extra week of work, cried daily and wondered "was it worth it"? I was in such pain in the recovery room I voiced that thought, but the sweet nurse said "you have to look at the big picture honey". So, 2 & 1/2 weeks later things look very different. I feel better, can eat more, and have less pain. I waited so long and jumped through so many hoops, had gall bladder removal only a month prior to banding, to get here I just want to tough it out. The weight is coming off and I feel prettier already (that may just be in my head but I'll take it). Have faith friend, nothing happens overnight. And call your doctor as many times as it takes to get an answer - that's part of the procedure in my opinion.