I never ever post but Cleo's Mom you said exactly what I was thinking when i saw the title of this thread. Thanks so much for posting. I think this should be a place venting as well as celebrating. Most if us started out feeling not our best selves with this experience but down the line it all changes for the better (Mostly). Lets try an be more patient with each other. If you dont want to read bitching and moaning skip the post...just my opinion...Thanks again Cleo's Mom.