I'm getting banded on May 17th, too! Wow, I guess it's a good day for a life change! I'm 24, married, two dogs (Duke and Dutchess), work in retail, starting back to college for my Master's, and I'm so excited for this surgery!
I read a blog once where a woman had written down all the things that she wanted to do once she lost weight. It had stuff like
1) Fly on an airplane without having to ask for a seatbelt extender
2) Ride a roller coaster and be able to get the bar down to secure myself
3) Eat in public without having people stare
4) Wear a bathing suit in public
5) Not just a bathing suit, a bikini!
6) Ride on a long car ride comfortably
7) Be on the other side of the camera
8) Sit in a booth at a restaurant
9) Shop by what I like, not by what comes in my size
As I kept reading, I started crying. Do you realize the things that I haven't done in my life because my weight (or my perception of my weight) held me back? The people I haven't talked to, the things I haven't done, the experiences I wanted but was to embarassed to try for because I didn't want everyone to stare at me?
I can't wait for this surgery. It feels like second chance at life.