I too felt like "oh, my god, What did I do?" I have 2 children ages 5 and 9 and I have several co-morbities. I wanted to be off my diabetes medication and others. I am happy to say I have accomplished that after only 4 days post surgery. I worry sometimes about how I will fit "normal life" into the lap band. You all help me understand that my feelings are normal and I am so glad to have a connection to all of you. This website is a huge help for getting through each day! Thank you everyone!