I'm glad I have made this decision to get banded. My date is July 12th. I let someone hinder me from doing this two years ago, an ex friend of mine, she told me only lazy people got the surgery and If i got it she would be so mad at me for not trying. Truth is I have tried and tried. One time in my life I lost 20lbs. and then I don't know what the hell happened. But I been big all my life I was in plus sizes in middle school. I can't remember when I was small, I was always a chunky munky. I seen some pictures when I was like 7 and I was mad skinny but from there I have no idea what happen...Good virginia cooking I guess.
But back to the point, I remember being so upset with her and I didn't share my pain with her because she wouldn't have understood. One day we went into a Charlotte Rousse and she was all like help pick out an outfit and find you something...NOW SHE KNOW DAMN WELL NO PLUS SIZES ARE IN THAT DAMN STORE...but she was all like plus sizes are here...ummm no boo boo 12 isn't me im a size 24/26..I was upset I didn't want to go to another store with her ass from that day forward. Keep in mind my two best friends that I have they are small and I have no problems going to the store with them because they don't make me feel like shit lol. But it was the way she did things that really blew smoke out of my ears.
we're no longer friends because she now has a boyfriend and no one is relevant to her but him...she TEXTED me five days later after my birthday...then she was too busy to talk to me when I called..I only called because I was crying about the death of my Grandma which she died a month before my birthday...yeah so this year started off with fuckery...but next year...things will turn around... :thumbup::tongue::scared2: