I am sorry to hear about you going through this. Because of this very issue, I have decided not to tell anyone I am considering the procedure except one friend because she is considering it also. I have a family member who works at a health facility that performs Lap-Band procedures and thinks I am a good candidate for this procedure.
The three of us will be each other’s support system.
I have tried numerous weight loss programs and my mother and sister were my constant negative force that I believed I could not be successful. Eventhough I temporarily live with my mother, we are regularly home at he same time and we cook our own meals so sticking to the program should not be a problem.
Keep the negativity at bay. I just bought a wall hanging today that says, “If you believe it, you can achieve it.”