Giving up is a great place to be! It is time to trust, accept, have faith, know that what is right for you is not the same thing that is right for another. We can choose to accept that our loved ones are all individuals that are working toward their goals in their own way.
What appears to be failure or loss is really just us having our eyes on the wrong set of facts. Move the line of vision over to where your control is. On you. Be focused on yourself and let the other have time to learn what they must on their own time. :thumbup: