Jenna -
your post is the reason i joined this forum!! Pls contact me before doing anything!!! I hope it's not too late!! Read my profile (or whatever it is) and keep in mind that that's just the basics - i didn't even go into terrible details of what i've suffered - physically and emotionally!! And what it's cost me!! Pls pls!!! If i could actually help soneone, i will feel better!