Ok here's my public confession;
I was banded 2 years ago, lost 120 lbs of fat and added about 20lbs of muscle.
Ive since grown far from my wife, I feel like I have nothing in common with her, the love has died. could this have been a result of my weight loss? Apparently I'm kinda hot? I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex.There have been several occasions were I could have done something stupid, but I choose the high rode.
I don't dislike her but I don't feel the same love as I did when I was heavy. She has been consistent, I changed.
I was speaking with people I work with, they all agreed that I have changed. My self-esteem level has sky rocketed, Its made me a little more assertive and cocky.
Has anyone gone through this? Im at the point were counseling is not working and I feel no hope. Se really is a great woman.
