Banded Bob,
Thank you for this post
I do drink, and understand living a lifestyle and have reached my weightloss goal (I still have 10 pds to go)
I do not deprive myself.......and believe everything in moderation
How I did it.......
When I knew I would be drinking (which sometimes would be 3-4 times a week, depending on work and events)........ I would eat ONLY Protein and Vegetables
For alcohol, I usually stick to wine or spritzers (half wine, half diet 7up), occasionally I will have a molson 67, but try to stay way from beer
I just always made sure I ate healthy and then drank what I wanted too! Not saying this is for everyone, but it is what I have had most success with.
If you ever need to talk, let me know! I have lost almost 90 pounds and still enjoy life
Caroline