Nikki71

Happy Anniversary to All. Feeling really discouraged over here Ready to get this weight loss jump started...

Hello Feb. 2010 Bandsters! Checking in and looking for some support... My weight loss has been stalled for a good 5 months now. Even when I had a little more restriction I was not losing weight. Is this it for me? Did the Lap Band do all that is could for me? I am feeling very disappointed. Honestly, I thought the weight loss would be easier then this. I feel like I have to do the rest on my own, like the old days before the lap band. Maybe I should have done bypass, maybe I still should...

Just checking in...Did you get an unfill? I am feeling the same exact way. Water going down very slowly, trickle, trickle... I got my 2nd fill 2 days ago and was stuck yesterday for 2 hours, sliming and PBing. Water goes down very slowly... I have an appt. this afternoon for a little unfill, but part of me wonders if I should wait it our another day. I hear the post fill swelling last about 3 days... I need restriction but need to be able t function without carrying around an empty water bottle to slime and PB in...I know, kind of gross.:w00t:

The stats are listed on the signature for Panfisher Surgery Date 2/23/10 Fill 3/25/10 3 cc in a 14 cc band Fill 4/8/10 1.5 cc Fill 4/22/10 .7 cc Don't compare yourself! I was banded on 2/24 and had my first fill last week. I do not need another fill. I am still in the learning stages with the band. I have not lost tons of weight and find that I need to use will power at times. But I am progressing toweards my goal, which is what matters. Talk to your doctor at your next appt. about your frustration.

I had my 1st fill 4 days ago and I still have so much trapped gas. I have been in so much pain from the gas. Very uncomfortable, GasX doesn't help. I can eat and drink ok, I just hope the gas subsides soon!!

My doctor doesn't use numbing medication because he said it hurts more then just the little needle prick from the fill. The prick really didn't hurt much, it was just weird to feel the sucking of the fluid then the pushing in of the fluid. I think I'm just going to go to bed. My stomach is sooo gassy and cramping....I was feeling great!

Had my first fill this morning. Wow, my stomach hurts...I am so gassy and crampy! Does this make sense with a fill? I think I now have 4cc in my band. It was installed/primed with 2cc at surgery on.

Hang in there. Again, it is hard not to compare yourself to other people, but don't. Everyone's body is different. My dr. recommends 60-70+ grams of protein per day and about 1200 calories. I want to lose weight but not too fast because I don't want tons of loose skin. Also if you loose really fast in the beginning it can get even harder as you hit plateaus and need to cut more calories. The only exercise my dr. wants me to do is walking, but I have started doing floor exercise, which are slow gentle movements for my legs and butt and some arm work...maybe some squats too...just slow and easy :)'

Hang in there! You are journaling everything you eat and drink? Keeping track of your protein level and calories? Maybe call the nutritionist on staff and talk with them. Hopefully your office has a support system for you. I think my body went into shock in the liquids, as soon as I started on soft foods, I gained 3 pounds, consuming only 1000 calories. I think you body may need some time to adjust to the different way of eating. Good Luck!

Checking in.... How is everyone doing? Chime in.... I can't believe I am finally 7 days post op. I feel worlds better, starting to almost feel like myself again. I am taking my journey 1 day at a time. I aim to make it through each day as prescribed. Granted Sat. can't come soon enough so I can move to mushies. Anyone using scar cream on their incisions? My dr. said not for 3 weeks, which seems like a long time. Have you seen your dr.? My 1st post op isn't until 4 weeks post op. Seems like a long time....hmmm Spring is almost here:)

I would guess you are not consuming enough calories. My body shuts down and wont drop weight. For that reason I have been making my protein shakes with Nf milk & adding a little Greek yogurt for more protein & a little fat. Maybe ask your Dr if you can add strained cream soups or mushies Hang in there:)

Thx It'll try rolling over. Now if my son would stop waking me up w/nightmares

I was hoping some of you who are a little further along then I could offer me some information. I am 6 days post op and have developed a "cramping" on my left lower side. It almost feels like the kind of cramp you would get after drinking water and running.... Did anyone experience this? Granted I do have diarrhea 3+ times per day. I guess I am just a little concerned about band slippage since I read so much about it here. I do also have sharp pains about 1 inch below the port incision but I am guessing that is the actual port rubbing against my inside making it home. ?? Besides that I am having trouble getting comfortable sleeping on my right side, port center left and am looking forward to sleeping on my stomach again. How long before you could sleep on your stomach? Thank you for your input and advice!!

Where are you finding the mushies recipies? I am looking forward to starting on soft foods in 6 days. Thanks!

That sounds true, I was asking about portion size and the RN said each person is different and you need to get to know your band....I am a little worried about the error part of the trial...I have never been known to take anything slowly...ugh.. just had yummy strained French Onion soup.:wink2:

Well, I'm glad to know that I'm not alone. I've been reading everyones posts about how great they feel and it made me feel like I was all alone, hence I didn't want to post. My banding was on Wed. 2/24 and I am defintley more uncomfortable than I expected...gas pain, burping, port pain. I hope I get used to all of it....I hope I don't burp this much forever. I have felt alot of regret the past few days, wishing I had none done this to myself, wishing I would have been able to loose the weight on my own. I really hope this gives me the kick start to get this going. I can't wait to move off the liquids and onto the soft foods in a week! I am going to try to get to a support group meeting next week so I can make sure I get into the right frame of mind because I need to move past my fear of failure and embrace this as an opportunity. Good Luck, and thank you for sharing!!

I'm 2 days after you on 2/24. :thumbup: Did you see the Feb. 2010 chat? http://www.lapbandtalk.com/f84/hey-february-2010-bandsters-106891/

Female issues...that is what I said....try not to get too detailed.

Hi Gloria, Thank you for your post. I am truly inspired after reading your story! I hope I am able to be succesful like you and Sandy!!

Hello Feb. 2010 Bandsters, Lots of people have joined the group in the last week, WELCOME!!! Good luck to everyone having surgery this week, keep us posted. Thank you for sharing your stories and personal experiences.

#1. Surgery date? 2/24/10 #2. State you live in? Ventura, CA #3. Doctor/Surgery Center? Dr. Helmuth Billy at St. Johns Oxnard, CA #4. Insurance or self pay? Anthem Blue Cross + Program Fee #5. Age and height 38 yrs old & 5'7" #6. Current weight and goal weight? 280 & goal 165 #7. What was your deciding factor for having this surgery? Long road to decision. I want to play sports again and don't want to be the "fat mom". #7. Do you have the support of family and friends? Yes, but keeping very, very private. #8. Concerns and questions? Worried about having a lack of energy. I might be overweight but I am high energy and active now.