Hi Shesha!
Latest in the saga is this; After insurance turned me down (no obesity or morbid obesity surgery for personal appearance sake, their only out), I went to my HR rep. She sounded very positive that, because of our company's reputation for wellness programs, that she might be able to get lap-band surgery added to our insurance coverage.
Long story, short; the company insurance consultant told HR that lap-band surgery, at $60,000 to $70,000, was too expensive and the complications too great. Where in the world they got their facts and figures, I have no idea!
I sent a (semi) scathing reply to HR's email to me, stating the real costs and much lower rate of complications, remembering that I still want to A) continue to work here! and She's still my best hope of getting this added to the insurance. I also re-iterated my offer to have one of the hospital's coordinators come speak to HR personally. I ran into this HR lady last week and she said the head of HR would be emailing me more about this. I'm still waiting....
Pre-op diet has slowed down, I'm at 21 pounds lost since Jan 11. I know I need to add exercise. I could do so much better with a concrete goal date.
Bill