hi susieq, I was just gettin ready to IM you to see how your doing;) I may have a answer to the weight differences. My anesthesiologist said different drs use different drugs, and the one in particular he used worked on swelling. So I may not be as swollen as you b.c of the different drugs used on us. What are you eating? right now the most I get is 40 oz water, 1/4 cup broth, 1/4 jello, and I try to get 4-5 sips of fusion protein supp drink. we will all lose our weight!! hang in there. I am so happy i did this, I have NO REGRETS! keep in touch!