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I guess I just have to weigh in and ask for a little compassion for those who go nuts in the restaurant. Don't know about you, but it wasn't all that long ago that I would be the one staging an eating exhibition. What I've found now, like others have said, is that in a restaurant I finish my 1/2 of the serving they gave me usually after everyone else has cleared their full plate. The good side of this is my adult kids are now paying attention to their own habits. I'm not saying anything to them, lecturing, or anything else... those closest to me have seen the change and it sparks some awareness in them. When I see the large ones stacking their plates at the buffet, I just thank God that I finally stopped kidding myself and found the courage to really do something about it. I can't hate them, I WAS them, and even with a band in me, I could join them again. Just counting my blessings is all...

Hi Sheldon, Stan here. 53 years old, father of 3. started at 388; surgery was July 1 and I now weigh 307. YEA!!! I screwed around with the decision for about two years. did I lose 80 pounds in two years? hell no... finally sucked it up and went for the surgery and the difference is night and day.. TRULY night and day. I have not had a fill yet, and am now learning to adjust my HEAD to the lap band since my body seems quite happy with it. any questions you may have, feel free to click on my profile and email me privately. I'll be glad to help any way I can. Stan

I was banded July 1. I can tell you honestly that EVERYTHING I worried about turned out to be a non-issue; chewing enough, swallowing at all, how much water I could drink at once, would it work, yadda-yadda-yadda.... and you should be a little scared right now. this is a pretty big decision. I screwed around with this decision for almost two years. then when I finally committed, it was most definitely an "emotional roller coaster". Man my brain was going crazy. BUT.... I was not losing weight any other way, my health was continuing to go downhill, and I knew it was time. So.. I'm 6'5" tall, and I started the pre-op diet on June 15 weighing 377. today is August 4 and I've lost almost 50 pounds, and feel incredible... this thing really does work!! take it one day at a time, one minute at a time if you have to, and know you're doing the right thing for YOU!! hang tough and go for it!

Well ahoy from a retired/disabled US Navy Senior Chief! Quit whining about the pills... how's that for a start? No seriously... I screwed around with this decision for some time, actually like two years. Now, I'm one month post surgery, and the difference is absolutely night and day.. no joke! It takes about 4- weeks to COMPLETELY heal from the surgery. first 10 days I slept in my recliner because upright with legs up was much more comfortable than bed. Last week I started back at the gym, hitting an elliptical machine for 30 minutes. My doc DID require the two week preop diet, and the main reason for that is to build up Protein in you for recovery and to shrink your liver as much as possible since they have to fish around it during surgery. It sucked, but I made it. Now, one month after surgery, I'm down 50 friggin' pounds and am thrilled with how good I feel! Pills... I use a pill cutter; no biggie. keep this in mind when it comes to pills: probably the first week or so after surgery, they'll need to be REALLY small because your innards will be swollen. One month out from surgery but BEFORE your first fill, the swelling goes down and with that, so does most anything you swallow. Once you start getting fills, things need to be about the size of a chiclet piece of gum. My doc reminded me that they sell these plastic tubes for parents to check pills with that's supposed to like model a two year old's throat. If your pill goes through that, supposedly you should be able to swallow it. I think that's enough for a start... PLEASE feel free to email me direct if you have questions.. links' on my profile. In the meantime... good luck jarhead... you can do this!!!

Well welcome to the adventure! I'm one month post band surgery, and I do know what you're talking about. excited and scared and nervous and everything in between. I screwed around with this decision for a couple years, and finally stopped BS'ing myself and went for it. My doc had me do a 2 week pre-op diet. it sucked, but I stuck to it, and plenty of doubt and other mental BS during those two weeks. BUT.. since the start of my pre-op diet on June 15, and being banded July1, I've lost 50 pounds... and I FEEL GREAT!!! And this is just the start of things!! and if it helps, I'm 52 years old, 6'5" and started this adventure at 380 pounds. Welcome aboard and if you have any questions, fire away! Stan

beer make and bread baker... by profession or passion? for me, it's a passion on both. I am by no means a pro beer maker, but I do have fun doing it. And bread, well... I like crusty breads like the rye I grew up with in NJ that I can't find here in western VA, so I make my own. Beer... for now, it's strictly off limits. I was taking in way too much and I am MUCH better off without it. Will I stay off it? I don't know. but right now, going on two months, my body is thanking me for leaving it alone. blood pressure down, etc... how's that? Stan

I'm right there with ya, almost... 52, screwed around with surgery decision for 2 years; saw the doc, put it off, etc... and yea, I could lose weight and then find it again in no time flat! oh and in the 2 years I stalled the surgery I managed to get put on diabetes meds.. yea I really took carre of myself, huh? So, now I'm banded. had surgery July1. Started 2 week preo-op diet June 15, and have already lost over 40 pounds. I haven't lost 40 pounds in God knows how long... already feel MUCH better.. glad I did it.. you will be too! Stan

Hey Tim! My name is Stan and I was banded the day after you! Losing weight like you, and it's slowed down a bit but still going down. Not worried about it too much; doc told me this first month post op is all about healing and letting my body adjust to having something stuck inside. weight may act a little weird right now, but after next appointment with him and probable first fill, like he said, "the fun will begin..". so, hang in there.. we take small bites, we chew the hell out of those, and on we go.. let me know how the next appt goes. mine is on Aug. 8.

my nutritionist told me to aim for 100-150 grams of protein a day. I'm a male, 6'5" with a goal weight of 220. As for carbs/fats, I'd say follow the rules of banding... eat protein first, then vegetable, then carbs if there's still room. hope that helps!

I've had a ton of questions already, and still have more coming, and am lucky enough to have guys that answer them honestly. they have been a HUGE help. Fire away!!

Hey man!! My recovery post-op has been just fine as far as I"m concerned. Spent the night in the hospital Friday July 1, came home Saturday July 2. made it a point to take my pain meds on schedule, and to get up and move every hour for at least 10 minutes for starters, then up from there. moving helps with the healing and the gas. I slept in a recliner, semi-upright when I got home and for the first week, just because it was more comfortable. By Tuesday afternoon that punched-in-the-gut feeling was pretty much gone; on Friday I cut the lawn and on Monday I was back at work. I should tell you that I slept ALOT from Saturday to Tuesday. Anyway, going on 3 weeks post op, and now on the pureed diet, and no joke I feel great!! All the things that I thought would be issues coming out of surgery are pretty much nonexistent, like chewing enough, being hungry/thirsty, being too tight, blah, blah, blah... instead, it's almost like when the doc put in the lap band he also flipped a switch from pig-out mode to pay attention mode. I'm finding it simple to keep track of calories and protein; something I hated before no matter what diet I tried. that's part of the reason why you find me here now, banded. I'm still just a little sore around my incision, and I'm in no mood to pick up anything heavy just yet, but that's a good thing..I"m finally learning some limits. Doc tells me it takes about 6 weeks to completely recover from this, and I'll take his word for it. So, I hope this encourages you and maybe allays some fears... I'm so glad I did this and damn I wished I'd hopped on it sooner! Stan

Hi Alan! I'm right there with ya... a little older, 52, and banded July 1 and so glad I did it... SO glad! you gonna spend the night at the hospital? I did. no biggie. any questions, feel free to PM/email me or respond right here. I"ll be happy to fill you in on how goes it with me. Stan

Welcome Scott! believe it or not there are a few guys lurking around here. I was banded July 1 and am thrilled that I did it! Will your doc have you on a two-week pre-op liquid diet? yea, that was fun.... anyway, feel free to respond or email me if you have questions/concerns... I screwed around with this decision for 2 years.. damn I wasted some time. So glad that's done and I"m getting on with my life! Stan