Hi,
I was banded last week and had many of the same fears as you. I kept myself busy and surrounded by family. The procedure was easy and it only took a few days to get back to myself. I am very happy with my decision. BTW, I was so nervous that even as the surgeon was putting me under, I asked her if she thought I was doing the right thing. Ha ha. I was that nervous.
Good Luck. March 22nd will be here before you know it!
NYC Diva