HiMow

I'm kinda happy I got married before I lost all of my weight. Honestly, that was one of the reasons I proposed to him when I did. I didn't want to get cocky or get some crazy urge to date around when I had the best man in the world! I got really lucky and he was really supportive. I think it shows that he is secure. He has said a few times to remember how nice he was to me when I get thin. HAHA:tongue:

I didnt start considering myself fat until I started losing weight. I think I would have been depressed otherwise. The problem is now I feel so fat I am more ashamed than before.

to be honest I have yet to exercise a single minute during the weight loss I have achieved so far. In fact, I lay in bed most of the day. Sometimes the whole day (I have other things going on with my health) You don't HAVE to exercise. But if I dont start soon I might get flabby.

OMG EW. I'm glad you're leaving him!!

the same hair color? now that is some will power!

cool I'm following all of you:biggrin:

be careful not to replace your food addiction with another one. My mother did that and has been hospitalized 3 times in the past year for alcohol abuse.

for the first time in 2 weeks I lost a pound!! Hurray!

the very title of this thread is upsetting

for the first time in 2 weeks I lost a pound!! Hurray!

You're already using an effective weight loss aid. What's the hurry?

I don't feel like I've lost at all. It takes a long time for your brain to catch up to your body, I think.

I have a blog!! Some People Were Born to Rock and Roll... I don't have any followers yet, but I would really love some support. Please check it out.

I gained 30 pounds.

You use the phrase "that being said." it infuriates me, it is SOOO annoying!!!!! I will read a post up until that line, after that I figure this person has nothing original or worth while to say. HAHA sorry i might just be cranky cause I'm sick, but I also can't stand when people say "DH" I will never say that. It is so ewwwwww!!! I'm sure there are more, but those two just KILL me!!!:bored:

it gets easier, but not that much easier. Just stick to it. Its hard as hell but if you can't do this, it is going to be really hard for you to be successful with your band:biggrin:

Ew I'm embarrassed to even say. It means "dear husband" or some variation. As if to say, "I went to the store with DH." EWWW

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yeah, I agree. Do that 5 day pouch test!:thumbup:

You're doing great! that's awesome! I hope I can say the same thing in 3 months!!

YES! Thank you so much!

stupid bitches! haha they're so pretty. It's not even my style but I just love tan, blonde, tall beauty queens. Probably because my mother was one. Here I am pale, short, chubby, and have dyed my blonde hair dark for 10 years. I wonder if I will ever be a "babe". I have always wanted to secretly be "mainstream attractive" but my heart just sort of gravitates to an alternative look. I think it stems from my attraction towards alternative ways of thinking. and now i have all these tattoos and piercings. I dont look like a PUNK. At least I don't think so. You can tell I'm edgy.. but thats like how the kids are these days. haha! and I was such a weirdo in high school. Oh... i got married today. It was sweet. At the waterfall by a witch and two witnesses. The real big wedding is in October, but we had to shot gun it for insurance reasons. I am happy to be a MRS. but I will not change my name until October since no one knows about it. SHHHH! I also get my wedding band then, too. It was special and sweet. I love my husband!!!

This is very helpful! I feel like I'm dragging still and it has been a month.

My husband helped me realize that I had the band put in like a little over a month ago. I feel like it has been so long and I should be losing more, but thats crazy! I'm too obsessed with my weight right now. I need to stop worrying and just let it happen. People obsessed about their weight are annoying and boring. I don't know how I got to this point, I wasn't like this before surgery. I think it's just that I have nothing better to do right now.