Hi Joyce,
I am in a similar situation where I feel that I am only able to tell one person, my friend since 4th grade, who understands my weight problem. My roommate/boyfriend of 5 years does not want me to get it and tells me this everyday since I started looking into it. I feel that the rest of my family would not be supportive so I am going to see how it goes without them. If you need any support I am here.