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I am having a really hard time with getting my butt in geat on this. I really want the lap band, but feel all the steps are so overwhelming and humiliating, that I am having a hard time getting the nerve up to start. The seminar! Would an oncologist gather 100 prostate cancer patients in a room and discuss their health? I dont think so! It seems to say to me that they dont believe it is a medical condition and they just want as much money as possiable for the least amount of work. Even the thought of being weighed is a nightmare for me! I know I will cry. And a sleep test? They need to take the same precausions if I test positive or not! I have had 4 surgerys while I was this large and they didnt sleep test me. And I worry that some doctors wont touch me cause I am 50+ BMI or force me to do an extended liquid diet. . . or worse yet, humiliate me. Did anyone have the same feelings early in their process. I know I want the lap-band but the steps after that, I am just not sure if I can do it. Any constructive thoughts, support, words of advice, etc is so greatly welcome!

I wonder why they do this test? If it diagnoses sleep apnea or not, how does that change your surgery?

Yeah I called! Silly me, I didnt realize I should do that. Got great info...sure hope it works out (a few requirments for documentation)

I have been told about Spivak and Spiegal many times. Those who have used them, could you tell me more about their practice, costs, insurance, skill, pre-testing, office, etc? Anything you can thinkof would be helpful (to me and to others I think). P.S. Is one of them involved in something called a "cattle call" and what would that be?

Why do they do a sleep study and how long do you have to be there? I cant imagine sleeping infront of people...and I cant imagine sleeping away from my son. He would flip out!

Wehave BCBS UT Select through my husbands work (we works for University of Texas). Does anyone know anything about thier coverage of lap band or who I would call to find out if they cover it?

Anyone now of a good, fat-friendly/lap-friendly PCP in houston? I need a doctor but I always go to the one who gives me the worst time and I leave and cry in the car. I want one who will be my partner, not bossy or condesending. Much Thanks

Does anyone have blogs to share that you have kept through the process? It would be so nice to get a good idea of the process by reading other stories. Carol

I am sure this isnt the same or everyone, but what kinds of pre-op testing did you guys have to go through? Is this done prior to insurance approvial or before the doctor gives you the ok to have the procedure? Thanks so much, Carol

I was actually scared cause the more I read, the more it seems like it is something I should seriously consider. And I thought he would just say "no way, no how" and then we would have a fight on our hands (he is a great guy but very stubborn once he makes his mind up) But he said "Honey, it sounds interesting. If it would make you happy, I am 100% behind you. Whats the next step?" I was so happy I cried a little bit :cry I had been so nervous all day. Carol P.S. What is "PB" and what kind of doctor do you have follow you through the process that can help you moniter your progress and stuff?

First things first, you all have been so great! I am so impressed with the support and help I have gotten as a new member. Thank you all so much! I have a question about being normal. I still havent really had a serious talk with my husband about it. He will be resistant. I know he is just araid of things. One thing he is afraid of is that I would always feel sick and never be able to be normal again. Besides complications, I am sure this is his biggest fear. At some point will I be able to go out to dinner (and eat a smaller portion) and enjoy it? Or have a drink? Or appear normal at all? Will I always feel sick? Thanks so much! Carol

Thanks so much. Did they give a weight which is considered heavy lifting? My son is 20lbs. You all are so helpful! Carol