vflores919

hi! I'm currently in the approval stages with my insurance and I've only told my mom and a couple of my best friends. I decided to only tell people who will definitely offer me sound and healthy support and advice. I'm fully aware of the complications and risks and I don't need to hear anyone's negatives comments. My mother's initial reaction was "I dont think you need a surgery to help you lose the weight." I quickly straightened her out about that and explained that even though I have been successful in losing it in the past, I always gain it back and that all i ask is that she support me. She's on board now. But Ive decided not to tell anyone else anymore. I already have cold feet and really do not need someone to scare me out of doing it, or worse make a rude remark and make me feel bad. I'm certain that I'm making the right decision and that's the only thing that matters to me at this point. The few people I have chosen to tell have proven to be a great support system for me so far. :wub:

Hi Chantal! That is a great question! I'm also going thru the approval process and have also remained pretty silent about my decision. Ive only told a couple family members and close friends. I know exactly how you feel. I work at the hospital that I plan on having my surgery and don't plan on saying anything to any coworkers unless asked. I think after the surgery I'll be more comfortable with sharing my experiences and journey with others. It's not that I'm ashamed or embarrassed. I'm just a lil fearful of negative comments. I don't know if it's like that for most people, but that's definitely how I feel so far. :wub:

What hospital does he work out of?