mom.on.the.go

i did a disney cruise last month and did mostly appetizers. and a lot of cold fish at that. it really worked for me. i avoided alcohol and didn't exercise. i lost 3 pounds during that time period.

i weigh only once a month at my surgeon's office. i may jump on the wii fit at my parents when i am over but i do not use that as a guide. i threw out my scale. right now this is working for me. as i get closer to my year anniversary i am sure i will need to track it closer. but right now my clothes are great guides. i update my ticker once a month after my official weigh-in.

hi evita... welcome to band-life. i am a 37 year old lesbian mom. i was banded in november. try to work on the feelings thing now. i know from experience they don't just go away. feel free to pm me if you need to talk. heidi

hi! i am 37 year old lesbian and solo mom to an almost 5 year old. i was banded 11/9/09. i am non-partnered and actually just decided to start dating. i tend to blog more than i post right now. feel free to follow my blog...i talk a lot about being a lesbian mom. welcome and good luck! heidi

i had planned to go home but i couldn't shake the anestheia. i came out of surgery around 4 and by 9 both the surgeon and my mother were coercing me to stay the night. by the time they rolled me into the elevator to go to the room at 11pm i felt better but was fine with staying. after i got settled in the room i asked the nurse to just let me sleep and keep the pain killers coming. she was great. i was up, dressed and ready to go by 10AM.

wow. i would look for a new surgeon. 35 bands seems kind of low to me. also, my advice is to find a surgeon you click with because to be successful i believe you need to be willing to have a very open and longterm relationship with your surgeon. also, his comment about that you "CAN'T" be a good mother at your weight...well, that would not sit well with me. sure, i know i am a better mother now that i am getting healthy....but that seems WAY out of line for a surgeon to say.

in addition to getting yourself checked... it sounds like you house may be "sick". it may be worth getting an inspection to check for mold and other environmental issues. i had a roof connection leak that manifested itself in my walls and not on the ceiling. my daughter was very sick for a long time until i discovered the Water damage in her wall. since pulling out all the drywall and redoing the roof she has not had many out of the ordinary colds. scray and upsetting stuff to discover, let me tell you....

not in my opinion. the choices should have been male or female. the facetious/immature inclusion of "other" was unnecessary and regardless of the monday morning quarterbacking -- was included from a place of ignorance or cruelty (both unaceptable in 2010) -- in my opinion. of the transgendered people that i have real-life familial and communal relationships with i am confident that they will know how to answer a poll that says male or female without looking for "other" or feeling that there should be an "other" option. for example, my male-to-female cousin would most likely check male for the census but because she has presented herself for 20 plus years as a female at work, home, in the public she would use the female restroom for societal ease. let her figure it out. she doesn't need the unneccesary reminder of "other" (or "it") that she has internally struggled with most of her life. how would the readers here feel if the poll was healthy weight obese lazy fat disgusting slob ?????? healthy weight/obese = related terms. lazy fat disgusting slob = insult/slur/judgement male/female = related terms. other = insult/slur/judgement this is not about being p.c. it is about being a strong, nuturing and inclusive community and society. i personally did not answer the poll because i think the answer was obvious and i am not interested in playing reindeer games. all of the above information is based on my lifelong involvement in the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered community and not on any college courses. now if you want to debate racial relationships in the jim crow south -- i am more than happy to chapter and verse you on those based on my two history degrees....

that certainly is one way to look at it.... i choose to look at it more globally and towards a better world....how do you know that there is not a trangendered member of this community? a person who has grown up being called "it" or "other" their whole life? expecting a little sensitivity or maturity from others in this community goes beyond being "offended" and not responding to polls. and quite frankly, regardless of the "rules", i think it something that is worthy of calling someone out for if their behavior or wording can make some feel detached from this community as a whole. just like racist, religious or misogynistic slurs or delineations would not be tolerated...neither should "other". fyi, transgendered discrimination is probably the most accepted forms of discrimination -- right up there with fat discrimination -- in this country today... and i don't need to consult a book to verify that....it is part of my family, my community and my passion.

i pretty much took the inclusion of "something else" title as facetious/immature. he would have worded it differently if he was genuinely interested in those who are transgendered.

gas-x strips made me want to retch. hot tea worked for me. walking too. but the hot tea broke things up. don't worry you have plenty of burping in your future.... lol. i spend most of my days now saying "excuse me"! lol.

i find the honesty expressed by the unpopular refreshing. it is helpful for me to process some of my own feelings. one woman's "disgusting" is another woman's reality, no? isn't that what this whole discussion really about?