Okay, maybe I don't know all the rules but I guess I thought I was following them as they were given to me. I am maybe eating more than I should, my papers from the doc say about 1-1/2 cup. I am spose to have 50 -60 gr of protein each day. I have a high fiber cereal for breakfast. I eat protein first, veg second, carbs last. Right? I was not told I could not have carbs but should limit them and eat them last. I have a snack from time to time but usually try to keep it to eating protien. (sometimes it is sugary treats but not usually) I will have a low fat cheese stick sometimes for snack or fruit. I have a protein dring most days for one of the snacks. Once in a great while (like when we go out to dinner once every couple of weeks) I will order a glass of wine. I am not much of a drinker so that is no big deal. I try to have enough water (36 oz)or herbal tea each day. I do not drink pop or fruit juice as a rule. However, it is obvious by my stand still in the weight loss area that something is wrong. I am thinking it is quantity mostly. I am going to start (tomarrow because I am pretty much done eating for today) weighing and measuring and see if I am not surprised by how much more I can eat than I thought.
I am going to call for a fill tomarrow. I sure wish there was someone who I could just sit and talk to who also has a band. Don't know anyone I can call. I live in a fairly rural area and have no support group of any kind. I have visited with the nutrionist a few times though. My hubby has just comunicated with me (bless his little heart) that we are maybe having more treats than we think. He says we got a little easy on ourselves, one bite at a time, when we went on our cruise. It is so easy to let ones guard down. Will let you all know how it goes tomarrow. Thank you Gayle for trying to help. I will get this weight coming off again soon. I got a real slow start due to some complications
with my port and did not get my first fill until April 3. I know it could be more loss but I was happy as long as there was progress but it has stopped so I need to re-adjust my thinking and actions.