Fitter

PhotoNut Quote: "Sorry, but I am not the one filling the boards with horrible, cruel, hateful, spiteful posts about her. If you will take a moment and really look at what's been going on, you'll see that no one has it in for her, although that is what she is trying so hard to make everyone believe. Show me my posts or my pm's that prove that I have it "in for Lisa". Go on.. I'm waiting. I'm so sick of being accused of things which noone can substantiate. Put up or shut up." YOU DELETED MOST OF THEM! YOU HAVE BEEN ASKED PERSONALLY BY ME, I'VE BEGGED, PLEADED, BRIBED AND EVENTUALLY WARNED YOU TO STAY AWAY FROM ME. YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD TO SIMPLY AVOID MY THREADS, YET YOUR DISEASE FORCES YOU TO FOLLOW ME LIKE GUMBY ON SHOE. ANYBODY CAN CLICK ON ANY ONE OF MY THREADS AND FIND YOU IN THERE WITH YOUR PHONY, "THIS IS NOT A PRIVATE THREAD, I'M ALLOWED TO BE HERE." IT'S NOT A QUESTION OF BEING ALLOWED, IT'S A MATTER OF RESPECT FOR THE MODERATORS THAT HAVE ASKED YOU TO BEHAVE AND FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND OTHER MEMBERS OF THIS BOARD. I'M SHOCKED THAT YOUR FRIENDS CAN'T SEE YOU FOR WHAT I SAW YOU FOR DURING OUR FIRST WEEK AS EX-FRIENDS. WHEN YOU STARTED WE QUICKLY BECAME PENPALS, BUT AFTER A FEW DAYS I SAW THE INSANITY YOU AND DAWG WERE INVOLVED IN, SO I TOLD YOU I WOULD RATHER AVOID ANY MORE CONFRONTATIONAL DISCUSSIONS AROUND LBT, AND UNTIL THINGS DIED DOWN WITH YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND, I WOULD RATHER NOT CONTINUE OUR E-MAILS. THAT BURNED YOU BEYOND BELIEF, AT WHICH POINT YOU CUT AND PASTED OUR PERSONAL E-MAIL INTO LBT, SPREAD OUR PRIVATE MESSAGES AROUND THE ENTIRE BOARD AND BEGAN STALKING MY EVERY-SINGLE-THREAD. MANY OF US SAW THROUGH THIS, AND I WOULD HOPE THAT ANY ONE OF YOUR FOLLOWERS WOULD STOP FOR TWO SECONDS AND GIVE ME THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT BY CHECKING OUT THESE FACTS, AND THEN EVERYBODY HERE CAN SEARCH MY NAME AND FIND YOU THERE HARRASSING ME. YOU ARE AN UNWANTED PRESENCE TO ME AND MANY OTHERS, AND EVEN AFTER I TRIED LEAVING TO MAKE THIS A BETTER PLACE, YOU STILL WENT DIGGING IN THE GARBAGE AND SPREAD MORONIC LIES ABOUT ME TO MEMBERS THROUGH PRIVATE MESSAGES THAT EVENTUALLY BECAME PLASTERED PUBLICLY. FOR YOU TO SAY YOU AREN'T THE SOURCE OF PROBLEMS MAKES ME SADDER FOR YOU EVER DAY. YOU ARE A SICK AND TWISTED SOUL. DO YOU WALK INTO A ROOM OF PEOPLE THAT DESPISE YOU AND DRAG UP A CHAIR AND MAKE SNIDE COMMENTS AND PRETEND TO BE CUTE? YOU WOULDN'T DARE APPROACH PEOPLE THAT CAN'T STAND BEING AROUND YOU, AND IF YOU DID, THEY'D ALL STAND UP AND WALK AWAY. YOU WANT PROOF? LOOK AT THE "BRING BACK LISA BONES" THREAD. LOOK AT THE "WHERE'S DELARLA" THREAD. LOOK AT THE "HARDEST THREAD OF MY LIFE" THREAD. THESE ARE ONLY THREE RECENT EXAMPLES OF HOW YOU SEEK TO DESTROY - EACH OF THESE THREADS WERE ONLY MY FRIENDS, AND EVEN AFTER I SENT YOU THE HARSHEST PM I'VE EVER WRITTEN TELLING YOU TO BACK THE HECK AWAY FROM ME, YOU STILL WENT TO THREADS INVOLVING MY PERSONAL LIFE. YOU DISGUST ME - YOU MOCKED THE PAIN I'M IN OVER THE LOSS OF MY PRECIOUS ANGEL, VOODOO, WHO WAS ADORED BY MANY ON THIS BOARD. YOU CAN'T EVEN RESPECT THE DEAD. GET HELP SUSAN - PLEASE PROVIDE AN INTELLIGENT RESPONSE TO THIS QUESTION SO WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT DRIVES YOU: YOU'VE BEEN ASKED BY THE MODERATORS AND WARNED BY LISA TO STOP HARRASSING HER, YET YOU STILL FOLLOW ALL OF HER THREADS TO POST SARCASTIC INSULTS AND JABS IN HER POSTS AND THREADS. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DO THIS (AND DIG DEEPER THAN "IT'S A PUBLIC BOARD, I'M ALLOWED HERE.")

Ditto! SEE YA AT http://www.myspace.com/delarla Peace, Mandy xo

d) File for individual restraining orders; Already done.

Interesting but EXHAUSTING experiment! If you do everything PhotoNuts does all day by clicking from thread to thread to thread to nauseating thread following people uselessly around the board, she'll stop stalking you! I just wasted an entire extended lunch hour seeing what it's like to live in the shoes of such *bows down* tenacious energy. If I knew I could replace my support meetings with LBT and a few bottles of wine, I'd have done this months ago! Susan, honestly, where do you find the spunk (or interest *crosses eyes, baffled*) to trail these threads ALL DAY LONG? No matter what time I pop on, no matter how many times my computer crashes, no matter what I do, you are right here at LBT jumping from thread to thread to thread to thread! The most boring person I've ever witnessed, but at least you are #1 at what you do - such amazing enthusiasm! Once again, I fold.

Here's Your Sign.

No, I'm 3Loves, you can be Lisa Bones.

Well, I certainly haven't seen them busy here at LBT... *knits brow curiously*

This one's worth a second read!!! QUOTE FROM DAWG - "Hey there Cheryl The wife and I have been pretty busy recently so we missed the last two support groups."

OMG, please tell me that's not a real quote before I have a heart attack from laughing so hard?!?

Mine said there's no documented proof of pouch dilation (aka slippage) but some docs think a good burp could slip the band. He also suggested giving up sneezing, which is worse than a good burp.

Duh, I AM 3Loves.

Fitter, GreatDame, kim2bhealthy, PhotoNut, jukebox, Tricia, Momotrips, no.name, missy4gordon Why are these people here?

Yeah, we figured we'd give you something to have fun with. Nice seeing you back, no.name. Don't let them run you off again. And thanks for the laugh!

Only you, PhotoNut, would put me on your ignore list while stalking me with moronic jabs. Isn't your glass empty or something?

I've existed in Lidsville for years. Here's your sign. Want a drool rag with that?

Psusan is a real person that got wind of the name through the grapevine when rumors about Googling it started several weeks back. Sad thing is it's a really cool name if you read the descriptions and check out her disciples. Makes me kinda ill feeling knowing I came up with it without checking first. She's a real person. Here's your sign. Wear it proudly.

And even after being asked by me personally as well as many other members to simply avoid DeLarla threads, PhotoNut can't resist antagonizing the board with her presence. There are thousands of thread to chose from and hundreds of new members seeking the support she claims she comes here for, but it she out helping newbies? No, she's drunkenly stalks me in a demented disgusting way that her friends all find entertaining. You want some support? Have you tried AA or did you stalk them to death also?

Originally Posted by PhotoNut "This forum is a good idea, but remember. We aren't here to attack each other personally. There is absolutely no good reason to hurt people with our words. No reason at all. The rules say attack the idea, not the person. Let's stick to that." Like I said earlier, there's no arguing with insanity or a pickled brain. Only a very dark and demented soul would have the blackness in her heart to continue following my name around the board in the guise of being a friend that cares about my dead baby.

QUOTE from PhotoNut I fondly remember bread.. and what all it has done for me over the years. I keep momentos of our long relationship so I never forget the intense addiction we had to one another. All the times I so lovingly held the softness in my fingers, smelled the aroma, the melting butter soaking into the delicsious fluff of white. MMmmm... Here, let me show you a few momentos. Here are my thighs, notice how they resemble large blobs of dough. And look, here is my double chin, placed there with loving care by pastries and buttery garlic bread. And oo.. look.. here on my lower back, see these rolls? *smiles* Ah potato rolls, hard rolls, cinnamon rolls.. need I say more? This is the same person that cut and pasted one of my recipes to prove to the board how dangerous I am for contributing junk food ideas that are SO dangerous to our weight loss efforts. Are you all enjoying your Breakfast martinis now in salute to all the newcomers that come here for support? HERE’S YOUR SIGN You drone on about how you come here for support when all you want is a place to control people that can’t stand you. If one of you dares reply that you come here for support then just bend over and kiss Pinky. Each and every one of you replied more to things non-band related in the last 24 hours than all the newbies’ band-related threads combined. Before slinging stones go drop some Visine and take a steady hard look in the mirror. There's no arguing with insanity or pickled brains. It’s no wonder...

Now that somebody isn't working you might expect an intoxicated surprise guest.

Do moderators get paid? Do they have rules? What if they abuse their rights? Can they walk away any time or are they forced to be here against their will physically or contractually? Is everyone privy to the rules of moderator? Do moderators get a second chance if they break the rules? Do they get a warning? If a moderator breaks the rules and gets banned, do the words BANNED appear under their picture? For the love of LBT, can we get answers?

IF YOU MESS WITH A BULL YOU’’RE GOING TO GET THE HORNS, AND IF YOU MESS WITH DELARLA SHE’’LL STOP AT NOTHING TO EXPOSE THE TRUTH AND FIX THE PROBLEM, AND PENNI KNOWS THIS FIRSTHAND; SO DOES EVERYBODY. PHOTONUTZ HAS BEEN PUTTING PEOPLE THROUGH MENTAL HELL FROM THE DAY SHE CAME HERE. YOU ALL KNOW SHE’’S BEEN REPORTED MORE TIMES THAT I CAN COUNT FROM MY FRIENDS (AND MYSELF) ALONE FOR STALKING, TERRORIZING, INSTIGATING, SLANDERING, TAINTING AND DESTROYING PEACE. WE’’VE BEGGED, PLEADED, BRIBED AND EVEN LEFT THE BOARD TO MAKE HER STOP STALKING AND ATTACKING BUT SO FAR NOBODY HAS OFFERED AN INTELLIGENT REASON WHY THIS IS ACCEPTABLE. SHE INVADES THRILLS FOR THE SHEER THRILL OF THE KILL, TO INCITE ANGER AND PROVOKE NEGATIVE AND UGLY RETORTS AD NAUSEUM. SOMETIMES THINGS HAVE TO GET DIRTY BEFORE THEY GET CLEAN. PHOTONUTZ SCARED AWAY MANY MEMBERS THAT CONTACTED ME FOR HELP BECAUSE THEY KNOW I’’M NOT AFRAID TO GET MY HANDS DIRTY OR STAND UP AGAINST THE SCHOOL BULLY WHO THINKS SHE CAN PUSH PEOPLE AROUND. I’’M NOT AFRAID OF HER, SO WHEN NOBODY ELSE FIXED THE PROBLEM, I DUG AS DEEP AS POSSIBLE TO EXPOSE THE PROBLEM, WHICH INCLUDES PENNI LOCKING MY THREADS WHILE ALLOWING PHOTONUTZ TO RUN DANGEROUSLY RAMPANT. PENNI ""MODERATES"" ME AS A FORM OF CONTROL AND PAYBACK FOR A FRIENDSHIP GONE BACK. I TOLD HER TO ALLOW OTHER MODS TO DEAL WITH ME, BUT PENNI POKED THE BULL AND GOT THE HORNS BY SENDING ME A RIDICULOUSLY HYPOCRITICAL PRIVATE MESSAGE ACCUSING ME OF BEING THE PROBLEM WHILE HIDING BEHIND HER SOUTHERN CHARM PRETENDING SHE’’S INNOCENT. BULLSHIT. PHOTONUTZ FORCED ME TO CLOSE DOWN MY DELARLA ACCOUNT, WHICH WAS NOT ORIGINALLY BANNED BUT I WAS UNABLE TO ACCESS. BUT THAT DIDN’’T EVEN STOP HER FROM POSTING DESPICABLY AND LIBELOUS MESSAGES AROUND THE BOARD AFTER MY TWO MONTH ABSENCE, SUCH AS: "" YOU HAVE YOUR HEAD SO FAR UP DELARLA’’S ASS…… AND ""DELARLA IS ONE OF THE TWO DERANGED PEOPLE DESTROYING LBT"" HOW THE HELL CAN I DESTROY LBT WHEN I WASN’’T EVEN HERE, AND WHY THE HELL DID MODERATORS ALLOW THIS? NONE OF THIS WOULD BE HAPPENING RIGHT NOW IF PENNI AND THE OTHER MODS PUT AN END TO SUSAN’’S ENDURING HARASSMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CAN ANYBODY WITH AN INTELLIGENT MIND COME UP WITH ANY REASON WHY PHOTONUTZ REFUSES TO AVOID ME AND WHY SHE STILL LURKS IN MY THREADS WHEN SHE DISGUSTS ME AND OTHERS TO TEARS? SHE FOLLOWS MY EVERY STEP IN HERE –– AND OTHERS, TO POST SARCASTIC AND DEROGATORY REMARKS ANYWHERE MY NAME IS INVOLVED. ALL YOU OLD-TIMER AND MODS KNOW I HAVE ANXIETY DISORDER AND A STRONG LINE OF MENTAL ILLNESS, BUT YOU ALSO KNOW I KEEP THE BEAST AT BAY UNTIL PROVOKED. WHY PROVOKE MET? I HAVE ANXIETY DISORDER AND HAVE TO WORK HARDER THAN ANYBODY TO STAY CALM BUT EVEN SOMEONE WITHOUT A CHEMICAL IMBALANCE HAS A BREAKING POINT. YOU ALL KNOW PHOTONUTZ SEEKS AND TERRORIZE ME AND THAT I’’LL REACT WITH AN ACID TONGUE AND BITTER SWEET REVENGE, SO WHY THE HECK HAVEN’’T YOU SHUT DOWN THE SOURCE? HELLO? THIS ISN’’T ROCKET SCIENCE. EVERYTHING WENT TO HELL THE DAY PHOTONUTZ MADE HER DEBUT AT LBT, WHICH HAD PENNI CALLING ME ON THE PHONE TO CLUCK ABOUT WHAT A TWISTED FREAK THIS PERSON INSISTS ON BEING, YET INSTEAD OF PUTTING TO THE INSANITY, PENNI INSTEAD TOSSED SOME LOGS ON THE INFERNO. I WARNED HER TO LEAVE MY POSTS TO OTHER MODERATORS BASED ON OUR SOURED RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE SHE CAN’’T BE IMPARTIAL BUT IN THE ONGOING GAME SHE REFUSED TO BACK OFF AND ALLOWED ME TO TAKE THE ENTIRE FALL FOR AN UGLY SCANDAL WE WERE BOTH RESPONSIBLE FOR. SOME FRIEND, PAULA. PENNI COVERED IT BY RANTING ABOUT HOW MODERATORS DON’’T HAVE THE LUXURY TO WALK AWAY, WHICH IS SADLY PATHETIC SINCE SHE HAS EVERY SUCH LUXURY. SHE LOCKED ADVERTISING THREADS WHILE USING THIS BOARD TO E-MAIL PEOPLE ASKING FOR THEIR HOME ADDRESS WHILE PLASTERING HER PROFILE WITH NOTHING BUT ADVERTISEMENTS. NOW THAT’’S THE POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK, AND IT’’S revoltingly UNFAIR. INSTEAD OF BEING THE SOLUTION, PENNI ADDED TO THE PROBLEM BY SENDING ME A PM THAT WAS MORE THAN UNWELCOME AND UNLEASHED THE HONESTY MONSTER –– SHE KNEW I’’D SNAP. SHE KNOWS ME VERY, VERY WELL. CAN ANYONE WITH AN INTELLIGENT MIND EXPLAIN TO ALL MEMBERS WHY THE MODERATORS ALLOW PHOTONUT TO STALK, TORMENT, INTIMIDATE, ATTACK, ANTAGONIZE AND TORTURE MEMBERS WHEN THEY KNOW IT WILL ONLY CAUSE THIS TYPE OF REACTION? DEMONIC? MORONIC? YOU CAN EITHER SEE THE TRUTH OR CONTINUE TO LIVE IN DENIAL. NOBODY PUTS BABY IN A CORNER (now that’’s funny, I don’’t care who ya’’r.) THIS IS MY FINAL POST. FAREWELL *flips up middle finger* *skips way*

Penii's a big girl and the one person that can stop this. Penni, were you in fact personally involved in the Bigchix scandal, and did you lie to your friends and members here at LBT while using your moderator privileges in the worse possible way by deceiving and manipulating the board and your friends? Did I speak with you on several occasions and ask out to step down as moderator out of self-respect and to allow other moderators to "moderate" my threads instead of being so unfair? Why are you still pretending? How can you not tell these people the truth already?

P.S. I forgot to add my comments about Dawg. Dude, we had some ugly moments, but you've shown the utmost respect towards me since the big blow up when you were new, and vice versa. It's an example of how people that don't care for each other are supposed to act, by peacefully coexisting in the same threads without making nasty comments back and forth or showing up in threads that we're clearly not wanted in for the sole purpose of making snide comments and destroying the essense of a support group. Thanks for that, and I mean it.

Wow, over 1100 views and so many accusatory remarks from so many sinless saints that it’s hard to decide where to being. First, nobody is hiding by the Fitter name because I sent Alex and several moderators a PM this morning telling them exactly who I am, and since this thread is questions for the moderators, there’s no reason for anyone else to get their panties in a bunch thinking I’m sneaking around afraid to show my face. It's no secret, the whole hairy cat is out of the bag now. I had to registered this screen name after being the only person banned from LBT for past behavior to tie up loose ends and to give one particular moderator one last chance to come clean to lies that have been going on for nearly a year, which she’s still hiding from. If the new rules are, "From now on" then why was my account suspended from prior issues while Penni and others are still here? Makes zero sense. I confessed 6 months ago that I was part of a big LBT scandal awhile back when a moderator and I used her two computers and her moderator login to make up a fake screen name to distort and control other members and LBT. We’d spend hours on long distance calls screwing with members, but once it got ugly I told Penni we needed to confess to the entire board, apologize and leave. She refused to come clean, and out of respect for what was once a solid friendship, I didn’t rat her out. Our friendship soured, so on more than one occasion I asked her not to moderate anything I wrote or said here, but instead to leave DeLarla's threads up to other moderatos since she's unable to keep an unbiased opinion any more when it comes to me after things got ugly between us. But too much has transpired since then, so she’s recently began “moderating” my posts and “reprimanding” me by locking threads while playing favorites and making pals to people she slams verbally on the phone with me. I suggested and warned Penni various times that out of self-respect for herself and peace on this board to come clean and admit to her devious abuse of moderator privileges and suggested multiple times that she step down as moderator. I could type for hours about the games we played together and all the secret PM info Penni shared with me to control the board. It was immature, and I’ve made apologies over the months. I do not have multiple names now since the others were locked, and I’m not the new Psusan, so enough with those accusations, okay? I don't have multiple names because DeLarla and LisaBones were banned, one at a time. First DeLarla was deactivated, then Lisa Bones because I tell the brutallly honest truth, which scares people I suppose? This account is only to say goodbye since I think you all have the right to know the truth FOR A CHANGE, don't you? This morning I explained all of this to Wheetsin, who’s replied to this thread as if she’s oblivious to what’s going on here. So if Alex, Alexandra, Penni and Wheetsin all know who I am, then where's the big mystery? Yet they all ignored it, which means plain and simple, moderators pick and chose who they ban based on a popularity contest? It’s run on basic cheerleader principals - if you're popular, you can stalk other members, post insults, threats, curse words, lies and scandals. But if you're brutally honest, we must ban you because that's what politicians would do. <O:p></O:p> Today I announced that once all members are treated fairly, then I’d again walk away from LBT because I don’t appreciate being made an example when I’ve done nothing different PhotoNut, Penni, Telly and others. Telly posted, “Bitch, this is war” in huge fonts in public, which Penni not only allowed, but participated in, while all Alexandra did was lock the thread. Penni made up a fake screen name, yet she gets to stay? PhotoNut has been begged, pleaded, warned and threatened to leave me alone, but she continues to post in threads where the DeLarla name is in the subject line, yet you all think that's normal? If Telly can say BITCH by spelling it wrong in public, then why can’t I write Phucknutz in a PM to someone that’s been harassing me? I’ve worked in the legal field for a long, long time, and no matter what way you slice it, Telly, Photonut, Penni and many, many others should be banned for their PAST behavior, since that’s exactly why I’ve been banned. <O:p></O:p> I haven’t read every page but La Madam is about the only person using her head. Michelle, you’re one of the only people I haven’t apologized to about the Bigchix scandal, but I’m glad you don’t have to wonder any more. <O:p></O:p> My questions have been answered – there are rules, but not everybody has to obey them, so why have any?