Fitter

So what? You obviously never met Leatha. She's one of the most intelligent women we've ever known but I guess you have to be somewhere in the same ballpark as her to get it. Great post, LG, I can't wait to rip my teeth into it during my LAST DAY OF WORK TOMORROW! Hey, I think I'll go a thread killin' with this! :kiss2:

I have to come up with a decision by my Tuesday meeting. If anyone knows anything about the stars, Libras have the most difficult time making decisions, but once they weigh the scales back and forth the right decision is alway the good one. With that in mind, I supposed I could meet this halfway, but I'll need suggestions for fundraiser other than what I'm already giving. So since I already made contacts with the news and local shelters to see how I can help some furry friends, maybe I can revive two birds with one golden nugget? Ideas?

For Pete's sake, Diva, here's your bone! I swear, you remind me of someone else just exactly like you that I'm usually completely able to ignore, but for you to pop in one of my threads and change the topic after you've attacked every other thing I've said here? Aren't you the least bit embarrassed to be in this thread pretending you care about my band and weight loss when this isn't even a band related forum? You are transparent, and this is the only bone I'll ever throw ya so enjoy it. Now go start another thread like a nice bandster and ask me about my band in an appropriate manner. Do we have a moderator in the house? Is this innocent thread about to get locked since they dragged the cancer here, too?

Leatha, damn you, that's two women here that can bring me to tears. xo always xo

Still no intelligent conversation? Any one of you losers has the balls to challenge me to some reality? Put your money where you bong is and brings some facts to the table, if you dare. Go drag through the garbage and find the threads that cause people to attack and defend. I dare you. What, no takers? I wish I could have as much fun as you folks that keep using the same material from last week as your soul source of entertainment. That’s simple country folk for ya! Newsflash from the big city, your moronic emotions and alcoholic ramblings have been beaten to the ground; the teenage skater boys in my neighborhood have more clever comebacks. Don't any of you have a Myspace account you can borrow some fresh material from? Or perhaps Heathergurl and Susan can show you how they retread old threads that I invented! That could be fun! Still harping about multiple accounts? Dare I start my list of innocent members with multiple accounts so you can all remain in denial and continue to attack personalities instead of evidence? Does anyone know you can change your name any time you want? Does anyone realize we were given the option of selecting just one of many names? Ignorance must be bliss because you're all so happy in here. Ding dong. At least you’re all happy fools, I’ll give you that. And Vick, my deepest apologies for offending you in a Rant and Rave thread.

I Ask For You Not To Focus On Personalities But To Focus On The Overwhelming Evidence That's Been Presented To You.

By Donnab "You say you would stay away from them, but what if you felt they wouldn't stay away from you? I wasn't here so I don't know what actually happened. I do know that if I felt persecuted I would eventually fight back. I hope I'd be smart enough to try to resolve it privately or ashamed of myself enough to know when to STOP" Donna, if people would stop attacking the person and start paying a little attention to the facts that have been posted, you'd see that all other means of communication have failed. Don't you think I've tried to stop Susan from harassing me? Dawg, do you see me following your wife and you around LBT, other than a few random comments? NO, the answer is NO. It's not a case of "last word syndrome." It's a case of Susan being so insanely jealous and controlling that she follows people - and NOT only me - around the board to the point they snap. We have all notified the moderators, and I initially started by being more civil than she deserved me to be, but even after sending her PMs telling her to STAY AWAY FROM ME FOR THE SAKE OF LBT she continues to get sick thrills chasing me around, antagonizing me, pouncing on my threads the second I write two words. It's not normal behavior, and the law doesn't tolerate it on the streets, so why should I stand back and tolerate it on a message board that I've belonged to for so many years? Why should I continue to be the one to walk away? Why do I have to play games like, "I'm really leaving this time" only to be drawn back after she and her cohorts continue use my name? Why are they so fascinated with me that they can't avoid me? Read your own words, "I do know that if I felt persecuted I would eventually fight back." You all do not know the entire story but if you stopped adding to the drama and took some time putting a few facts together, the problem is clear as Water. And as far as accusations of multiple screen names, I happen to know more people than I can count at LBT with multiple screen names that haven't been band while I'm being accused of being No.Name, PSusan and others? And for people to see right through the Dawg and PhotoNut tag team as being separate entities while they play off each other to attack other singles? Check the facts, and then get back to us. Anyone that wants to be friends with the likes of a common street predator needs to stay away from people that don't want to be stalked, whether in person or in a public message board. Why don't those of you who claim to be so smart and supperior go retrace her every move at LBT and finally realize that if ONE person stops, others won't need a defense?

Fitter, Vickie1177, GreatDame, susan4794, PamRN, the best me, Kathy S, Luna, debi717, idahobeauty, BakoGal, leatha_g Here's the list of people who are tired of seeing this. If you're tired of it, why are you reading it?

Susan4794, please explain how you're helping? If you don't like me and if you don't want to see me at LBT then do not read my threads or posts - it's that simple. Can you dig it? If you don't like me and if you don't want to see me at LBT then do not read my threads or posts - it's that simple. Can you dig it? If you don't like me and if you don't want to see me at LBT then do not read my threads or posts - it's that simple. Can you dig it? If you don't like me and if you don't want to see me at LBT then do not read my threads or posts - it's that simple. Can you dig it?

"I find it hard to believe that the moderators or Alex or whoever made the decision would base it solely on the reason that you and Susan do not get along. I'm not getting information from anyone hon." Luna, since you don't know what you're talking about then all you're doing is adding rumors and fuel to a fire that's way out of control. People, if you refrain from participating in threads that don't belong to you then you do NOT have to be sick of them! Stop pretending that you don't thrive on this drama when it's the same people getting in the way of fixing this disaster! It's THAT simple! If this doesn't pertain to you, try another thread, you're only making it worse.

"Lisa wasnt banned because of Susan. Lisa was banned because of Lisa's actions" Luna, what actions are you talking about? Nobody else knows why I was banned, where do you get your information?

Call me a selfish delusional narcissist, but I swear flylady.net was created especially for me! That fat lady old lady with wings even kinda looks like me. Thanks for sharing a site that just may save the ounce of sanity rambling around my disorganized coconut! Tomorrow is my very last day in Corporate America, so my whole life takes on new meaning next week, and my first order of business every morning will now be Flylady with coffee! COOL SITE!

3-Loves, thanks for seeing her true colors... feels good to know the entire board isn't blind.

"This may come back to bite me in the ass, as so many of my attempts to get this crazy crap to stop but here goes another one of my lame attempts... Can we PLEASE stop this snide bickering? PLEASE? We are ruining LBT. People see you and I as complete asses who are doing nothing but f'ing up LBT. I fricking hate that." And there goes Susan again, acting like she doesn't have a clue and still refusing to answer one simple question that I’ve asked countless times: ANSWER US, SUSAN! WHY DO YOU STALK ME? DON'T COWAR AWAY THIS TIME. ANSWER ME. You are no different than a creepy man following an unwanted innocent child by coming into every thread I'm in at the exact time I’m in there just to irritate me and my friends. We all realize you “can” enter them because you have the right, but why would you even want to if you aren’t wanted and have been asked and told to stay away from me for the sake of this board? You admit you’re ruining LBT but refuse to do anything to stop it. ANSWER ME ANSWER ME ANSWER ME Heck, have your husband answer me, ask FuddyDuddy or Huthergurl or Diva or anyone else that’s accused me of being the problem to ANSWER ME!

"However, if it were something that seemed to matter that much to the powers that be, I'd be more inclined to suck it up and participate for the sake of being a team player." See, that's kinda what I think, that I should just suck up. Hey, maybe after I help a woman get back on her feet she can adopt a Pit Bull!

They didn't even "ask" me. It's a group of women that are all doing it, and we get together for meetings and talk about the new SPARCUS. It's not a requirement - I just posted my feelings of guilt for not being as enthusiased as I feel I should be.

"I think that the esophagus becomes immune to some extent for long term bandsters and we can no longer tell whether we have too much or too little restriction." I'll probably have esophogeal problems for life now that I eroded and they removed my band. Now I can't even tell the difference between a scratchy throat, allergies, a cough or problems swallowing. Thinking of you, SJ.

Vines, my lil brother just went through 2 major surgeries, and as soon as his doctor gave him clearance he came to Vegas to recoup. Wanna?

Vines... do you have one extra spoon to finally help me paint? It's really going to happen, and I even asked Coco to help pick out paint colors to please YOU! I love your spoon theory, but I'm fresh out. Maybe after a few months I'll have some extra ones. Car washing really is good exercise though, but so is walking those poor locked up Pit Bulls at the local shelters. There are as many as 60% Pit Bulls in our local shelters at one time that have been forced to fight or breed and then dumped. I don't have enough spoons.

Quote by Fuddyduddy: "I am pretty sure it is illegal to offer incentives to employees to participate in charity. So the company doing this is not really ethical in their practices by doing this." Nobody said there are incentives, and nobody appreciates your accusing Slumber Parties as being an unethical company. Why taint another thread when Slumber's 10,000 female distributors did more to rebuild the French Quarter in New Orleans after Katrina than anything else I've personally experienced? We even held our National Convention there so 2000 generous women could help the economy instead of selfishly taking it somewhere posh and pretty. Katie Couric was proud to have us on the Today Show, and our Number One distributor is from St. George, Utah, practically (if not) the Morman Capital. Maybe you could get your church to match us?

So wise. I guess the best thing to do is call my team and let them know I'm only able to contribute financially for now. After the huge 1994 Northridge earthquake, a neighbor came by to show me her trunk loaded with boxes of food. She said to, "Hurry to the donation center and get your free food while it lasts!" I was disgusted with her because she I got off lucky with minimal damage. The only charity either of us needed was fresh Water. We watched our neighbors' homes burn to the ground with everything they ever owned. By the time the weakest ones even had a chance to think about food, it was all gone by greedy grabbing hands. I haven't been able to donate to a food bank since.

"I have my own charities that I support for my own personal reasons and IMHO it is nobody's business" AND "I'm very choosie about who my money goes too." ... is exactly what I'm talking about. I did quit my job, it's my other business that just started this really great organization. Needy women have to apply and show good cause why they need funds to rekindle their spirit and get their lives back on track so I know money will go directly to a really great cause. I've already contributed financially by adding extra money to my order, which I'll do each time I place an order. However, the reason I quit my corporate job is to get grounded, healthy and caught up with life. My time at my F/T job is wasted when there's so much to do at home, hence my existence at LBT. So now I'll finally have time, after 2 decades, to catch up with life, yet we're talking about things like car washes and other fund raisers? I haven't washed my own car yet! I don't want to sound harsh, and perhaps I'm being too selfish with my new leisure time? But it's not leisure time - it's time to build my new business and paint my house! Ask Vinesqueen about my boring white walls, they've been screaming for years. But in the team spirit... But I'm mentally tapped out... but all other women are so excited about it... But I want to devote time to rescuing Pitbulls... But it will help women... but but but.... Anyone want a car wash

They aren't pressuring as in, "Do this or else," it's just that everyone is making a huge deal of it trying to get on TV, in magazines, etc. It's been in the working a long time and finally surfaced. I'm not saying I don't believe in this particular charity, but it's certainly not my number one choice by far, so it feels like it's another thing on my pile to do that won't go away.

Susan, everything you post in reply to a thread by me, for me or about me is bitter, nasty harassment considering the attempts we have made to keep you away from me. We aren't talking about threads regarding the band, only threads regarding ME that you've been told to leave alone for the sake of peace and respect for LBT. Do you think anyone believed you had compassion for my pain over the loss of my beloved pet on a thread I started for his friends? SUSAN, AS SOON AS YOU STOP DODGING THE QUESTION, THIS ENTIRE DEBACLE WILL END. ONCE AGAIN: OTHER THAN THE SAKE OF BEING OBNOXIOUS, WHY DO YOU FOLLOW AND PARTICIPATE IN THREADS ABOUT ME WHEN WE ARE TRYING TO AVOID YOU? Wheetsin, before you lock this thread, can you answer it? Thanks.

Dianechef QUOTE, "I would LOVE nothing more then to get back to talking about our bands. I mean this IS Lapbandtalk, right?!?! Not Delarla bandless Talk!!" AND YET ANOTHER HYPOCRITE THAT CAN'T IGNORE ME. TAKE YOUR OWN MEDICINE AND STOP DRAGGING MY NAME THROUGH DIRT. AND WHILE YOU'RE BUSY OBESSEING WITH ME AND MY NAME, WHY NOT GOOGLE MY ENTIRE HISTORY, LIKE MY OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENT AWARD FROM THE FRONT PAGE OF THE LAS VEGAS REVIEW JOURNAL AFTER RECEIVING THE HIGHEST GRADE POINT AVERAGE OUT OF MY CLASS? I MEAN, YOU'RE ALREADY ON YOUR KNEES DIGGING IN GARBAGE, RIGHT? AND FOR THE SHEEP THAT FOLLOW THIS CRAP, EVERYBODY THAT SPOKE THE TRUTH AT OTHER BOARDS WAS BANNED BECAUSE NOBODY WANTED TO HEAR HONESTY, WHICH IS WHY MANY, MANY, MANY CURRENT MEMBERS WERE BANNED FROM THE SAME SITE. . LBT WAS (AND PROBABLY STILL IS) THE ONLY PUBLIC BOARD THAT ALLOWS YOU TO POST COMPLICATIONS. SINCE I WENT THROUGH TWO INFECTED PORTS AND SEVEN BAND-RELATED SURGERIES, I WAS BANNED FOR NOT BEING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTION. IF YOU'RE GOING TO SLAM MY NAME, GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO CONTINUE PROVING YOUR IGNORANCE. MODERATORS, COULD WE HAVE DIANECHEF BANNED FOR ASSAULTING ME PUBLICLY WITH YET ANOTHER LIE?