Teryn

I've had some times when I've been uncomfortable in my port. It's happened a few times when I've maybe eaten a little too much. Sometimes even ONE too many bites can cause it. I know what you mean about being able to feel it now though, lol. I'm at goal after losing 80lbs and can even feel my ribs again lol

It was 2 years on Oct 13th since my LB, and my doctor suggested I lose 60lbs. And I've actually lost 78 lbs!!!! And I'm so happy and feel soo much better healthwise. My doctor (who is wonderful) thought because of other health problems thought that 60lbs would probably be all I could lose. I have MS so am not able to do much exercise. But I tried to adapt to my situation, and did as much as I was ABLE to exercise. On my way to the surgery I was 204lbs and am now 128lbs!! It's been 30yrs since I've weighed this. I've never considered myslef thin cause I'm only 5ft tall lol. When I've checked, I'm still considered overweight, but kinda doubt I'll lose anymore. Anyway, alot of you here were very encouraging to me when I would hit my lows and was frustrated cause I didn't think I was losing fast enough. Wanted to say a big THANK YOU for that. Terri

Thank you very much and I wish you well with your weight loss. I think the most frustrating thing is that it does take some time. It will be worth it though.

TY ptmyers for your response. My doc says it will take a year to lose 60lbs, but I expected it to be a little faster. Hate those reminders that I'm a little older now, lol. Course when ya think of the alternative, is a good thing.

lost weight as slow as I am right now? I was March, and I've only lost 30lbs!!! I know I can't do much exercise because of another physical condition, but 30lbs in 6mths isn't what I was expecting. I've had 2 fills, the last one 10 days ago, and am having some soreness at the port site right now also. Has anyone else had this problem?

I have some tenderness at my port site and it seems swollen to me. Was just wondering what symptoms you had. I did find out last week that I have many gall stones, some nausea with it but no vomiting.

Yes I did tell my doctor about the tenderness but seems he thought that was "normal". If it still hurts on Mon though, I'll give him a call. And I didn't mean to complain really about the slow weight loss and I shouldn't just go by the scale. It's time to buy some new clothes but was trying to wait till I've lost a little more. Thank you for replying. Terri

I had the same problem for the 3 weeks after surgery. Was horrible but gradually started going away as I started soft then solid food. I actually lost 14lbs during those first weeks, lol. Hang in there and hope you're feeling better soon.

I had my surgery on 10/13, so not long before you. I've only lost 25lbs and it's driving me crazy!!! I was supposed to have a fill on my last appointment but the doc wouldn't do it cause he says I'm losing at the perfect rate. He says that I'd also put my body into "starvation mode" lately and thats why I'm at a standstill. I eat between 600-800 cals. a day, but if I eat more, I know I won't lose. Because of a medical illness, I can't exercise much so that's part of it too I know. Just getting pretty frustrated here.

My back and knees are where I have the most pain. But like you, I'm afraid the doc will say it's all in my head. I'm going to have to have knee replacement surgery in a few months though, so am hoping I feel alot better after that.

I'm the same with alot of you where bread is concerned. Turns out it's a big no no for me. Seems there are a couple things I need to stay away from lately. I was trying to eat just a tossed salad and that also gave me a belly ache. Fresh veggies do too!! I just don't know what to eat these days.

I've noticed lately thatI get pains in my stomach, depending on what food I eat. Bread really does a number on me.

Another nurse here. I worked for over 20yrs in different areas, though my fav was working for a nurse midwife. Had to quit 10yrs ago due to my MS, and though I miss it some, I enjoy having time to spend with my grandbabies.

Thank you for the encouraging words Trish. I didn't realize that 3cc wasn't a restriction yet. When was it that you're finally starting to make a difference. Yes, it really is hard when you're away from family. They actually lived WITH us for a few years, and though it's nice to have the house to ourselves again, 4hrs away is too far. Just wish they could visit, go home, then visit again soon after. Congrats to your daughter for being succesful with her band. I bet she feels so much better and it nice she has a relationship now. I see that you're in the poconos, we lived close to hershey. We're almost neighbors, haha.

Over the holidays, I actually lost 5lbs, and was so proud of myself. WAS being the important word here. My daughter and my grandchildren moved to another part of the state last summer, and they were here visiting for a week. When they left again, my old eating habits have seemed to take over. I'm depressed cause I miss them so much and not sleeping a whole lot. And one of my troubles has always been mixing up being tired and hungry. So, after eating more since they left, I really blew it last night. I stayed up too late watching tv and of course started eating...UGH. It was just pretzels, but eating alot of them sure adds up. I got on the scale this morning and seems I've gained 2 of those pounds back. I'm trying not to feel guilty about it but thats hard. I've just had one fil so far and that was 3cc. I'm due for another one in a few weeks and am hoping that helps. Please wish me luck.

Oh I remember my 40's (I'm 52 now) and I was in overdrive. Wore my hubby out, lol. I'm hoping after losing more weight, some of that will come back.

Hi Tam. I was banded in Oct, and like you, I have MS. I know there are some things unique to us, and was wondering if I could email you Terri

I've not formally been diagnosed either, but from what I've read, I think it's very possible. May I ask what kinds of symptoms you have? Terri

I've heard a few people who think the band isn't the right way to go. I did think about GB at first, but my doctor didn't feel it was right for me. I had my band placed 10/13/09 and so far have lost 20lbs. Even that much makes me feel better, just wish it wasn't so slow lol

Hi. I live between E Town and Middletown and was banded 10/13/09. And looks we we both go to the same practice, Dr. Davidson is my doctor. Is so nice to see someone from my area. Do you know if there's a support group there? Terri

I also can't exercise because of other health problems. Have you been able to lose weight without exercising?

Congrats ElfiePoo. Especially with your sugar level, that's so very important. I was a nurse and have seen how that affects people.Guess I got spoiled cause I lost so much right away but not now. Have been trying to find some exercises that I can do besides walking. I'm sure that would help with my weightloss.

I'm sure you're frustrated. Hang in there though, I bet it works for us in time.

I think I did pretty well for Thanksgiving. Had a very small piece of turkey, and small amts. of mashed potatoes, stuff, and corn. I did have a tiny piece of dessert but then fel to guilty about it. I was at a dinner a few weeks ago though, and when I looked around at my friends plates, I could believe all the food they had on them!! The thing is, if not for my band, I'd have done the same thing.

Hi Scooter, I had my surgery on Oct. 13th and wrote almost the same exact letter as your a few weeks ago. I love 14lbs in 14 days, and since then only 2 more lbs. I'm so frustrated right now and am hoping my 1st fill will help. When some of my friends see me I think they're wondering why I've not lost more weight than I have. Maybe thats all in my mind, lol. Anyway, didn't want you to feel alone with this.