Hello, My name is Emily and I was banded on 08-14-09 just 12 days after my 20th birthday. I would love to just have someone to talk to because I only have have one fill so far and I'm not losing and really afraid of gaining any weight back. I hate it , I get no restriction and feel guilty. I really want to make this band work. Anyone who wouldnt mind too many being available just to chat. I am away at school and not many people know about my surgery so I dont really have any support and I've never felt so alone.