Mixed emotions today... 12/16/90 is the day i got marred 26 years ago. And in about 3 weeks ill be divorced. I do still love him, but i can't live with him. Why is this so hard.
It's hard because you put so much effort and selflessness into a marriage that when it does come to an end, all that work seems futile. But, knowing when it is time to move on takes bravery. Take each day one day at a time. You will make it.