BayougirlMrsS

This was Saturday.... our third annual Christmas party. 30lbs less than last christmas

Maurice's....

mama.... he sounds like a very insecure man/boy..... I really hate to say it, but, he will not be with you for the long run. Mine actually told me to gain my weight back. That i looked like a bag of bones... (i didn't) and that i was prettier when i was fat because my wrinkles in my face didn't show...... It took many years for me to get the nerv to leave... but it was the best thing ever..... I didn't realize how controlled i was till after i left and looked back on my 26 years with him.

it happens the other way too..... lots of women can't handle than man looking good and getting attention. Heheh.... Aj. You forgot to say clothing optional. Naked pie eating is acceptable...lol

I use that one too and i don't see that. where is it located

Ok.... so, looks like i need new jeans..... I should have worn a belt... Representing the LSU today....

Damnnnnnn.... you look amazing.... i bet you have all the heads turning.

Just a question.... Why can't you drink? I had the band for years and drank, like maybe once a month. Sleeved 3 months ago and my dr. never said i couldn't drink. I drink wine and other stuff. Sure, it's only one.... but i can still drink. I miss burgers..... and a grilled cheese.

Don't be so hard on your self..... we are all sinners.... First part of fixing a problem is admitting there is one. So now that you know and WE all know.... Fix that Sh!t...!!!

Has anyone ever Ambian ate and have no memory of it? At some point last night, I got up out of bed, walked (naked) into the kitchen, went into the fridge, pull out the last remaining sliver of French silk pie, put it in a paper plate, put the pie plate in the sink, carried it to my bed (husband is out of town) ate it, put the empty plate on the night stand.... without getting a single crumb in the bed and the went back to sleep...... any one else?????

i said thank God it was only a sliver of pie.... hehe

I was married to my now ex for 26 years. When we first got together i was all of 100lbs. Then after years i put on 132lbs. Weight got up to 232lbs in 2009 i got banded and lost 89lbs. He hated it.... from the started. He never wanted me to have WLS in the first place. The more i lost the worse it got. The sad thing was, i lost the weight because i thought it would bring us together. He hated the attention i got, hated that i got more confidence, hated that he lost more and more control over me. Started accusing me of cheating. Stopped having sex with me... well maybe once or twice a year. He would say the worst things and make me feel horrible. Asked him to go to counseling, he said he would go if i paid for it cause there was nothing wrong with him. In july of 2016 i told him that if things didn't change i was filing for divorce. So no changes... i filed January 2017. I had to realize that WLS does change everything.... not just our weight. Go on youtube and watch this video.

I know when i had my band (2009) it picked the weight of 143.... that's where i stayed for 7+ years. I got down to 130, but my body just went back and stayed at 143. Now with the sleeve i'm down to 139. After my band was removed in 2017 i got to 173.5. So, i'm waiting to see where i land this time.

LOL.... AJ... that's exactly what my husband said.

It doesn't matter if she had them at a 29 BMI. No insurance will cover at that BMI. 90% or great insurance requires...... 35 BMI with two or more comorbids.... 40 BMI with no comorbids..... I have never heard of any insurance coving WLS at a 29 BMI...... Cash pay you can.

If it a revision, mr dr will do if it's cash pay. I had the band placed in 2009 (232lbs) lost and maintained at 143 for 7+ years, band slipped an had to be removed in 2017. Went 2.5+ years looking for a dr to do a revision. Was headed to mx when i found my dr here in Mississippi. Before no one would do it because i "didn't weigh enough". So i understand. But after the years of going without i gained 30lbs... not on purpose. He did the sleeve for me at a 30-31 Bmi. I"m 5'2" and i weighted 173.5 at my first visit. Today, 3 months 2 weeks PO i'm sitting at 139.8 My cash pay (because insurance won't cover ) 14K. No co morbids

Yes you are so right. Some days i'm tired... but it's better than nothing. I had to stop for a few weeks due to having some mole removed and requiring stitches. I need to get back.

You are not the first person to call me twisted..... hehehe.... I like it in 2001 i was working with a girl. She was very thin, I was not at my heaviest, but over 200lbs. She always wore very stylish clothes, but she would always have something to say about people's weight, myself included. You know the fat people are gross and lazy... She and i didn't get along. I had to leave that dept because one of us was going to die.... hehe... (for real). Fast forward to 2012 three years banded and looking amazing. I left that company in 2009 only weeks after my band. I was in the store and she came up to me and said, Hey Chris, how much weight have you lost..... I said..... looks like the 89lbs you found... I know it was not right.... but man at the time... it felt soooooo good to put her in her place.

today is Friday and we get to wear Jeans...... my husband too me to lunch... (spicy crab meat with avocado, no lettuce). He said... wow babe you really have lost a lot of weight..... today i weighed in at 140.6..... whoop whoop. Casual friday it is...... Just noticed my headphones around my neck.... hehe

I love!!!!!! those boots... so Yummy

See.... the b***h in me would have touched his beer-belly and asked..... Should you be working in your conditions? Or i would have asked when was his baby due.... hehehehe.... i really would have

Why do I still see a larger woman? Today i woke up at 141.4.... Loose size 6 slacks and i still feel not thin enough. What is wrong with my brain???? Most people would love to be a size 6..... I still see size 10-12.... I know, i should be grateful that i'm not the size 20+ i use to be.....

Yes.... i always have trouble with button down shirts.... ugghhhh My husband was walking behind me at Home Depot last night..... and he said... wow you really look small. Yeahhhhh winning

oK.... did what yall said.... Progress.... Thanks Pants size 10 - 6 = down 2 sizes Weight 173.5 - 141.4 = -32.3lbs Bust 44" - 40" = -4" Under bust 34" - 31"= -3" Right arm 12.5" - 11.5 = -1" Left arm 13" - 11.5 = -2.5" Waist 37" - 32" = -5" Hips 44" - 40" = -4" Right Thigh 24.5" - 21.5 = -3" Left Thigh 24.25" - 22" = -2.25"

So i joined Crossfit last March i think... hehe..... I thought for sure they were going to kill me. NOPE.... I have never been to a gym that EVERYONE and I mean EVERYONE is cheering you on. I walk in and everyone says.... Hey Chris.... What's great about it, i don't have to think. They tell and show me what to do every day. It's like having a personal trainer every day. Some people say... it's expensive, but If you got pay a gym membership and on top of that pay a trainer twice a week..... that's way more than the $100 i pay a month... with no contract. Without that no telling how much i would have gained when i lost my Lapband. Most places let you try a few times. Don't worry, there are people of every size and level in there. I was definitely the weakest and least fit. But they don't care. Now neither do I. I get the GNC chewables... they look like a starburst. I know that this site has a great melting one.