BayougirlMrsS

going to order this.... Need to know if it is true to size... As you know i have "large" boobies... Do you think a size 6 would be to small??? Thinking of getting two of them the short sleeve Gray and black and the pink and flowers.

You look GREAT!!!

Thank you so much.... he cried the entire time... I never thought about that.... omg you are sooo smart.

Local boutique.... on the sale rack... $500.... can't remember the designer... ill look tonight. this is the one i wanted, but his parents were going to be there.... sooooo. Thanks, i found him on Match.... hehe he was just waiting for me.

I also love a man in a suit..... This was 4 weeks PO for me... i was only down 20lbs. The waist was not as fitted as i wanted, but i was losing by the day... Yes, i had to add fabric to the top because the "girls" were tooooo out and proud. His family was there...hehe

@Sheribear68 Not that you asked but i could see your rocking this: https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/32315/pour-moi/65008-pour-moipuerto-rico-tankini-top/ & https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/32311/pour-moi/65003-pour-moipuerto-rico-bikini-brief/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/19261/pour-moi/7107-pour-moi-aloha-control-swimsuit/?styleid=32725 https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/25001/pour-moi/27006-pour-moi-bahamas-neck-ring-control-swimsuit/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/37224/seaspray/33-2347a-seaspray-just-colour-plain-hourglass-swimsuit/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/35141/freya/3974-freya-sundance-underwired-high-neck-swimsuit/?styleid=64400 https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/36912/seaspray/24-2184-seaspray-cassiopia-classic-draped-swimsuit/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/28305/moontide-swimwear/m4464rs-moontide-reversible-solids-halter-band-swimsuit/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/33647/panache/sw1210-panache-portofino-swimsuit/ https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/28668/moontide-swimwear/m4602wf-moontide-waterfall-u-trim-swimsuit/ I would have chosen a few two-piece.... but i don't think you would give them a chance... even though you would look great in them...

WOW!!!!! you look amazing in this dress...... I love love love it... I noticed your feet have gone down just like mine have....

This is what i say.... pick one thing and buy it from them...and see how it goes. I was afraid at first.... but that was yearssssss ago. In all the things i have bought, bras, swimsuits.. etc i have only sent two things back. One was because i didn't read the description and it was padded and when i put it on... Well I DON'T NEED PAD... and a few months ago a bra that came in and i didn't like what it looked like in person... so i sent it back. I had to pay shipping back, but it was credited as soon as they got it back. I never had to pay duty charges... just comes reg. mail.

just throw it in back of the closet and when he asks..... say... a skinny friend gave me that..... hehehe

B... Trying to do this without support from your wife will make it more difficult. My Now ex husband did the same things to me... said lots of horrible things... before and after WLS. But it got way worse after. After i lost he accused me of everything under the sun... including cheating... getting thin for "other men"... Getting thin to prepare to leave him... It's got to the point where i hated to go home after work. for her to say that she might not find you attractive after... is a crap thing to say, which means she is already insecure and is going to use that as an excuse.... trust that she is already thinking that. You have to chose to do this for you. And know that you will change in every way... not just your weight. Divorce in the WLS community is huge... My best guess... over 75% of us get divorced. We also lose friends and family. So she won't be the only person with issues with your WL. I would venture to say most of the people you hang around are "large". They will start to side with her and tell you.... Don't you think you lost enough, Your too skinny, your not the same person, all you talk about now is losing weight, you won't be able to come out to eat with us anymore...... and they will start canceling plans with you and you will see that they will start doing things without you. But, you don't need these people in your life.... you will do fine without them. surround yourself with positive people... people that will support you and your new healthy life... I unlike some people here chose to tell NO ONE about my Sleeve.....Only my now-husband knows. Tons of people knew about the Band SX in 2009 and the removal in 2017... I wish i had told no one then... but live and learn. So much better not telling... I just say i'm watching what i eat and i'm doing crossfit... which is 100% true.

Love Dr. V....

agree..... I do all my swim suit shopping on https://www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/ They sell tops and bottoms separately. If you click on a top you like.... at the bottom are the matching bottoms in different styles. They also sell sarongs.... which are "so-right"... lol Yes i know its the UK... but i have buying from them for years and never any issues,... Normally if i buy on a Monday, but the following monday/tuesday i have it.

these are some of my favorite shorts... https://www.columbia.com/womens-coral-point-iii-short-1884521.html?cgid=women-bottoms-shorts&dwvar_1884521_variationColor=160#prefn1=variationDimension&prefv1=4|5&mid=paidsearch&nid=COL|Brand|Clothing|Google|Exact|US&oid=Shorts_Womens&did=columbia+shorts+women&eid=Google%2BAdwords%2BUS&s_kwcid=AL!3937!3!351595993666!e!!g!!columbia+shorts+women&ef_id=EAIaIQobChMI7vDohdzd5wIVysDACh2A5Qe0EAAYASAAEgLUgvD_BwE%3AG%3As&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7vDohdzd5wIVysDACh2A5Qe0EAAYASAAEgLUgvD_BwE&start=0 I think you should find a couple cute swimsuits and just were a Sarong over it.... Youll look great

https://www.amazon.com/SheIn-Womens-Summer-Short-Sleeve/dp/B07S3Z3WKV/ref=sr_1_55?crid=FVOHEK3EZCTT&dchild=1&keywords=shein+dresses+for+women&qid=1582117786&sprefix=shein+%2Caps%2C180&sr=8-55 https://www.amazon.com/SheIn-Womens-Flounce-Sleeve-Floral/dp/B07XHGBWNW/ref=sr_1_110?crid=FVOHEK3EZCTT&dchild=1&keywords=shein+dresses+for+women&qid=1582117996&sprefix=shein+%2Caps%2C180&sr=8-110 https://www.amazon.com/Fadalo-Printed-Jumpsuits-Sleeveless-Playsuit/dp/B07PSNFR2M/ref=sr_1_156_sspa?crid=FVOHEK3EZCTT&keywords=shein+dresses+for+women&qid=1582117996&sprefix=shein+%2Caps%2C180&sr=8-156-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFYM1JPMEFMMDZHVEImZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTAxNzIzMzkzOERVWDNZU0hSMldPJmVuY3J5cHRlZEFkSWQ9QTA5ODc2MTEyTEpQVEc2Nk02NUxBJndpZGdldE5hbWU9c3BfYnRmJmFjdGlvbj1jbGlja1JlZGlyZWN0JmRvTm90TG9nQ2xpY2s9dHJ1ZQ== https://us.shein.com/Tropical-Print-Cold-Shoulder-Dress-p-748198-cat-1727.html?scici=navbar_2~~tab01navbar04menu05dir08~~4_5_8~~itemPicking_00101992~~SPcCccWomenCategory_default~~0~~0 https://us.shein.com/Tropical-Print-Cami-Dress-p-701870-cat-1727.html?scici=navbar_2~~tab01navbar04menu05dir08~~4_5_8~~itemPicking_00101992~~SPcCccWomenCategory_default~~0~~0

I think you should be ok to by shorts.... Where are you headed? I think we may head to Vegas soon.... I know we are headed back to Jekyll Island for our one year anniversary. Get some flowy dresses...

that was the dress we bought in NYC.... haha... I started replenishing .... but some things he paid wayyyyy to much to give away... so i have been bring stuff to the tailor to get things taken in. This is now one to go get fixed.. I'm not really trying to lose anymore, but the pounds keep falling off. I reallyyyyyy need a tan. Then i'll be hot.. hehehe

this was bought on one of our trips to NYC .... guess i'll have to get it taken in...

Ok, so NOT the outfit i was planning on wearing for Valentine's..... Most everything i pull out sexy is too big now. This was still too big, but i made it work. This was a side by side.... July 2018 (my 50th birthday) and this valentine's day.

I ate 5 doritos chips today.... and the rest of the bag is staring at me.....

It looks Great.... it really does.... i would tell you if it didn't

@AJ Tylo You don't owe anyone an explanation... I think if a woman of 20 wants to be with you... Go for it. I know after i got divorced and started dating, i had many younger men asking to date me... even some of my youngest son's friends (No i didn't)..... but men even younger.... After my first SX in 2009 and lost a ton... my sex drive went way up.... too bad my husband didn't want to be with me and i had to take care of myself.... Enjoy your new sex life.....

There are lots of men on here that are great role models....