BayougirlMrsS

look fine.... i'd kinda like to see it with out the tank under it.... Just to see.

Happy Anniversary you two... you look amazing.

you would look outstanding in it... I'm going to wear with some tall (to the knee) black leather boots (heeled)

Ok.... Not the best pictures.... but here is the Green dress i was telling you about.

you will love it...... Tell me what you think

Exactly what i tell people..... I did the whole "tell" when I had the band. It wasn't that I was ashamed of it.... But i can tell you NOT tell is way better. @Elinor1811 Everything you could do before you can do now... just in very small bites. If you know your dad will tell, don't tell him... Just follow what @Arabesque said

holy wow!!! You look amazing.

You all have done an amazing job...... my best ones were being called Thin Mint as a nick name by a close friend. My youngest son was about 24-25 and a co worker of his saw us together and asked him if i was his girlfriend, he said.... ewwww dude that's my mom, the co worker then said, wow she hot... is she single... heheheh Same son's friend asked him...now that your mom is single can i ask he out....ewwww When my grandkids were little and they would call me nana and people would look at me and say..... I thought you were their mom

on an Off topic..... Has anyone heard from Angiebear? Hope she is ok @AngieBear

I love them.... so many options. I go to the meat counter and have them thinly sliced salami, pepperoni, prosciutto, I always add some cheeses ... blue cheese, brie, smoked gouda, throw in some cut strawberries, ripe cantaloupe, some olives, peppered mustard spread.... pepper jelly... and some thin crackers and some nuts..... Yummmmm

Well that really sucks.... I love amazon prime. I click it first to make sure it's free shipping. I don't want to fall in love with something that I have to pay shipping either..... I will take a picture ..... we have decided to forgo the Christmas party due to the increase in Covid cases... I'm soooo sad. But told Tim I have two new things to wear and expect a couple of dinner dates to make up for it. I live vicariously through you all alllllll the time. Still waiting for "someone" to come decorate for me...... hehehe Have all this wine sitting around waiting to be drank

For some reason the holidays and vacations I always seem to lose weight. I become super aware of every bite of food. If there is anything we have all learned is what foods are our trigger food and what makes us gain. I know that a week ago I was having trouble with snacking... mostly chips. I did cook a roast with carrots and potatoes. I ate too many of the carrots and potatoes and not enough meat,..... Lesson learned. Stick to what I know.... Lost 3lbs on Thursday.... I had to do a liquid diet for one day for a colonoscopy. Back at the 120.

it has no slit at all.... I got the small and think it would fit you perfectly. I wouldn't get the ex small or the med. It is as pictured. I will put it on tonight and send a picture. it's well made and a beautiful shade of emerald green. Tim really liked it.

@ms.sss I bought this shirt from Shein.... and thought about you... no, this is not me, but i did try it on and it fits perfectly.... bought a small. Thinking my black leather skirt or some black dress pants... https://www.amazon.com/SheIn-Womens-Elegant-Sleeve-Blouse/dp/B089LHLWN3/ref=pd_ybh_a_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=R57YY5Y7WZD3Z89221AK and this in a small.... coming in today. If it fits well it may be the other option for the Christmas party at the house. https://www.amazon.com/TAM-WARE-Stylish-Surplice-TWCWD157-HUNTERGREEN-M/dp/B075MV5M7P/ref=pd_ybh_a_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=0MDHQMG6NERC3Z59NG6H You all know i'm fashion challenged.... so all your help is appreciated.

It's hard, I know. I divorced my X after 26 years. For me, it was the best decision. He was a very controlling person. I got remarried a little over a year ago to the most amazing man ever.... finding happiness again can happen.

Thanks...... it's been a long road with many bumps and pot-holes along the way.

IMO i think as soon as you have all your stuff done, it should be turned in. Who cares if there are 9 people or 1.... I say first come first served. My original dr/SX compiled all the results and submitted to insurance with a SX Date in one large packet. I was approved in 2 days.

Anyone else have a reverse body image before WLS? I look in the mirror and didn't see the 232lb person. I saw "normal".... It wasn't until I didn't recognize myself in a picture that I really saw what I looked like.... I was shocked and disgusted. Then as the years went by, looking in the mirror, it's become the other where I don't see the thin size 0 person.... The mind is a crazy thing for sure. I hold up jeans in a size 0 and think.... OMG there is no way, but they do. I have a hard time parting with things that are too big. Just yesterday I brought 5 shirts and 2 skirts to the tailor. I'm obsessed with my boobs now. After years and years of being an H cup, they look so small as a FF-G.... I know that they are still bigger than most, but to me they look tiny...... ugh.. Drinking has become a 1 drink a day thing. I just challenged myself to see how long I could go if I really tried..... 23 days. Had one Sunday night and it knocked my D!ck in the dirt..... Thank the dear Lord in Heaven I don't really like shopping. I hate going into a shop and picking things out.... I'm terrible at it. I also hate getting undressed and dressed over and over. I moved to another state where no one knew the size 20 me. No one knew my past, I knew no one and it was so liberating...... This is also how I managed to have revision SX without telling anyone... that in itself has been awesome. Especially this time around..... (raises a hand and admits) it wasn't hard work at all.

You and i have the same issue..... everything in a jump suit or maxie dress is too long.... But WOW!!! that is super sexy.... I love it. Headed to the seamstress today with a dozen pieces of clothes.

Lettuce is a not and so is the raw veggies. I agree with the other.... stick with straight up

I always wanted to run with my grandkids I always wanted to sky dive i always wanted to do yoga take a dance class i always wanted to shop in fancy shops

I went to the second hand or consignment stores. Bought leggings... the first time with the band. The second time with the sleeve I still had a lot of my size 6 from band SX .... but i had to give all those away as i am now a size 0

for you, I would break out the special wine we got in Italy.... Sophie, i have plenty if you want to come too.... hell I have enough for everyone....

beautiful.... @Sophie7713 I wish i had your talent. Audrey is my all-time favorite... Watched A Nuns Story over the weekend... I could and have watched her all day

I suck at Christmas... i'm a terrible decorator and gift-giver.... I have great intentions but never seems to work. I so admire you all and your beautiful trees..... If anyone feels the need to do more decorating... I'll send my address.... All the wine and cocktails you can drink....