Hi Helen. There is so much to talk to you about! I had my op at Derby hospital. I was in a day 1/2 and was eating a muiller yogurt the next morning. Pain wasnt bad - uncomfortable more than anything and a bit tired - which you are for a couple of weeks after. Minimal bruising. Fluid for 6 weeks - 4 weeks of what you can get up a straw and then baby type food for 2 weeks, slowly moving to solids. 4 years later it is no means easy, but my god, so worth it!!! Please try and come to group. We have private, nhs bypass and band patients there. I have a band and lots of information to give you and will give you the opportunity to meet other pre op and post op people to give you advise and a "shoulder" of support. Next meeting Sunday 10th Jan. We have patients from all over lincolnshire, from Hull to Newark to Skeg to Spalding. Would be lovely to meet you. :rolleyes2:x