i had the suregery 3 years ago...I told only close friends and family. I explained that it is only a tool and I am still going to have many struggles. It is not the easy way out...it is the hardest thing i have ever done! Feelind full was a comforting thing for me...you will never feel full in the same way...hard to explain! So, if you just present it like you have already made the decision and ask for there support, i'm sure they will be supportive!