ok, i don't get this. I am new. why in the world would anyone want to pass judgment on anyone else. we are all just here doing the best we can. i am a girl who has been gossiped about, talked about, bitched about and you know what....i'm still here. my favorite quote is from richard simmons mother. she told him "honey, not everyone is gonna love you. Ya gotta focus on the ones who do!" So, let it roll right off....and anyway karma is a great thing!