Hello my name is Cathy, I live in Gloucester Va and I am thinking about the lap band system. But it truly scares me. But I have tried everything else and nothing. I would loose and then gain and loose and gain. I am sure you all know the roller coaster ride we all take. I was stupid when I was young and started smoking. Now I am paying for that even tho I have been smoke free for 8 years now. The bigger I get the weaker my lungs get and I know I have to do something or else. I have an appointment with my family doc on thursday and I am going to talk to him about the band. It just scares me with everything that can go wrong. I guess what I am trying to get at is how did some of you get passed your fear? any help or advice would be great. I know I have to do this just need a kick in the butt I guess. Thanks in advance for any advice.